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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, here we go Friday After Show podcast. We
are on Justin Winnie. Welcome in everybody, Winnie. What's going on?
You have any good plans for the weekend? I mean
think Chili's tonight. No Texas.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
My boyfriend doesn't like text Roadhouse, which I don't.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Know why didn't.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Wasn't he eating the bread?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Yeah, he's doing the whole like too cool for school thing,
like oh yeah, the bread's like cool, but like it's whatever.
And I'm like, sir, you should encourage it, because what
if I would you rather us go to Texas Roadhouse
and you drop forty dollars on dinner or I make
you go to like Smith.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
The Ones Keys me drop three hundred dinner, like you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
I mean, yeah, Texas Roadhouse is definitely cheaper.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yeah, I'm a cheap date. I really am.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
I don't drink, and I like like small and I
like like cheap chain restaurants.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
You're like a child. It's like dating a child. Yeah,
but yeah, I think the baby. The ribs are really
good at Texas road are good. And you know what else,
I like a Texas Roadhouse. The salads so good with
their honey mustard. Yeah, it's so go the eggs and
the tomatoes and the cheese, and the cheese is like crumbled. Yep.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Yeah, it's really really, really good.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Yeah. We get take out sometimes from Texas roadhouses. We
don't take the kids in public. We don't take them
out to eat because their pains in the ass.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
You should start to want that to teach them how
to go to eat. It's a good skill for them
to have because they didn't even want to know how
to act in a restaurant.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
So actually it's funny. We never did with Abel because
he was such a pain in the ass. But now
Able is at an age where he's fine, he can
go out. Now it's Gemma. She she'll sit, but then
she after a little while, she wants to get up.
She wants to get up, and you know, it's like
and then it just becomes annoying for us. Not only that,
even if they do sit, we have to rush to eat,
you know what I mean. Bring the kids.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Selling parenthood to me. Yeah, you know, I love to eat.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
I was talking to mikey V the other day and
we were talking about like our home house. We have
like these house conversations, like about houses and stuff. And
I said to him, you know what, I care about
the shell shock that your brother is about to feel,
Frankie V. Because he's having a daughter. Congratulations soon, like
in June July.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Anythink eight weeks left?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Okay, so the end of summer. Yeah, And if you
don't know Frankie V, he is the hardest working guy
in radio. He is on every fucking actually yeah, he
does the morning show, afternoon show, He's on all kinds
of shows all over the country. He's hosting events. He's
like the Billy Costa of San Diego. The guy is
a workaholic. He just loves what he does. And that's
all gonna change. I mean, it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
And he's gonna be He's an older, first time dad,
so he's had a long time of his career and
his way of life.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
And yeah, he just needs to I told Mikey, he
just needs to take a step back. He doesn't have
to do every event, especially when you have a wife
at home with the baby.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I hope his wife, Courtney speaks up for herself and
advocates for herself about that, like, no, you can't go tonight,
you need to stay home.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
It's not just to help her out. You know, that's important,
but it's also just to be present. Well yeah, that's.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
True too, But you know, I think sometimes a lot
of it lays on the mother because physically, yeah, you
need her for a lot more.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
It's funny. I remember talking to Billy one time, and
you know, how'd you do it with the three boys?
You know, three boys or only the two years apart
or whatever, like when they were younger? How'd you do it? Yeah?
It was hard, you know, I was traveling all the time.
And then I realized nanny, you had a living nan Yeah, okay,
so then nanny was the one that took care of
the kids.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
We have to help living nannies.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
We do.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Do you have Nana and nanny downstairs?
Speaker 1 (03:29):
We do? Yeah, we do, but it's different, like you know,
paying somebody like that's their job. Yeah, yeah, you know
Nanny is. Yeah, she's she's a huge help.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, you're very lucky.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Yeah, even Nana, I mean, I know she's like in
her early eighties, but she's still with it, like I'm sure,
oh very much so for you guys, and helps with that.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Right, Every dinner is an event every night.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
So did you don't even cook her?
Speaker 1 (03:51):
No? No, not really.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
She didn't have to.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
She doesn't have to. And every day the same thing.
I get home around eleven thirty twelve o'clock, I get
I sit in the couch, and every day the door
opens and then she goes up. Jan I'm making cutlets
with pasta, I'm making soup, And that's a whole day
build up until dinner. Yeah, and then the dinner comes
out and it's feed Gemma because Jemma eats and they
love it. There's nothing Italians love more than watching babies eat.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
They sit there and stare at them. And every day
after dinner she'll she'll be like, oh my god, she
had three cutlets. She had three whole cutlets. That's funny. Yeah,
it's really crazy. But yeah, parenting is really tough, but
you know it's it's worth it. You have to think
about this, Whey, who's gonna take your area when you're older.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
There's no guarantee that my kids will take care of me.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
That's that's what I think. Some people fail to realize
when they have kids that there's no obligation. I mean,
there is a moral one in my eyes, like I
will take care of my parents. Obviously my dad's been
going through cancer right now. That's been on my mind
with me and my siblings making sure we're there for him.
And luckily my mom is retired, so she's kind of
the full time helper, you know, his you know nurse,
(04:57):
but you know, back up or need help us, Like
we're all there. I'm getting him food or whatever. And
I thought about that, like, okay, so in twenty years
my mom's eighty, I'm like me and my siblings, this
will be like part of our every day is making
sure they're good. There are some kids they drop their
parents off at a nursing home and they don't come
visit them. They come and see them on Christmas, in
(05:19):
Easter or whatever, and so that's where the bigger fear
is raising an asshole that doesn't come and take care
of you because there's no guarantee they will don't.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Raise an asshole.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Well, tell some people don't raise assholes. Are they do
their best and their kids just so selfish? Yeah, Like
there's a lot of great parents out there that are
still put in nursing homes that did everything the right way,
that were good in present parents and their kids are selfish.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
I will say though, one thing parenting has brought me
is so I never really had a true fear of death,
but obviously we all think about it. It's a scary thought,
and we get on the rabbit hole of like.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Have you officially died?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
No, Okay, well I've gone out, I've gotten high and
then passed, like literally went out for hours, yeah, and
then woke up. So I don't know what happened too,
But I never got like yeah, you know. Anyway, so
you think about death and everything, and it's a scary thought.
Right now that I have kids, it almost makes death
easier because it gives that this is my purpose now
(06:17):
in life, as I'm on this earth, is is to
be a parent and raise these kids up. And it's
just I feel like if I succeed at that, it
just my job is done. Almost. I don't know. Maybe
that's just a me.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Thing, but some people could be scarier because you don't
want to die when your kids are young and you
don't want to live, you know, even like my dad
right now, I mean where his kids are thirty seven,
thirty five, thirty two, and twenty eight, and I feel
like he still has that purpose that I'm still living
for them and working. I mean he still works fifty
sixty hours a week, and at this point, their house
(06:47):
is paid off, their cars are paid off. I mean,
they're just chilling type of thing. And I noticed he's like,
let me help you with this, or let me have
you with that. And I'm like, oh no, it's and
he was like, I would rather help you while I
can see you like take the help than be like, oh,
one day this will be all yours, you.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Like my dad now is like, oh you little extra
money for the dog or you know, either the day
the other day he's like, hey, because I pay them
for my car because they had to buy my car
for me because of my car insurance.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
So so he's like he's like, hey, just to give
you only give us this much because keep a hundred
for like coda for like food and stuff. And I
was like, okay, thank you, like whatever, but like that's
the way he thinks.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
It's like, you know, they paid that car as soon
as they gone it, they paid.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Oh you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Now I'm just give him the money every month they don't,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
But I refuse not to give it to them because
I'm not asking for them to sound the responsibility.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
But as long as you make the effort, Yeah, of course. Yeah,
that's what it is. Yeah, is if you were trying
to show at them and not I.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Would never do that the first Like, when I get paid,
I take out the money right away and I go.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Give it to them. That's the first thing I do
when I get paid.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
But yeah, no, But like you said, so, I think
sometimes it's like my dad in his sixties.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
I think heven like cancer.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
It's like he still felt like I'm a dad, I'm
a grandfather, a grandfather. You know, you don't you don't
lose it. But I think that's why Billy works so
hard still. He still has that mentality. They have three
boys at home.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Yeah, you know, he doesn't fucking stop working. No, it's
actually unbelievable. He works more than anyone.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
I know he's gonna I'm him and my dad will
both die before they retire.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Think about this, Think about like, right now, we just
finished the show. It's the end of the week. I'm tired. Yeah. Right.
He literally leaves and goes and shoots two TV shows
I think today or the other. The other day he
was at Fenway. Then he was riding the tee with
his TV show. He's on Cape Cod. I mean the
guy's fucking all.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Over yeah crazy, it doesn't lean to you.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
But you know who's not working right now? After today?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Me and me? I think I'm good after it.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Right now, I'm good. I don't really I don't have
any plans for the weekend either. Yeah, I don't even know.
I gotta.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
I know my boyfriend's coming over today, but I don't
really know what our plans are.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I have to. I have a new nephew I haven't
met yet.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
You haven't met him yet?
Speaker 1 (08:53):
No, because he does. They don't want the kids around
them yet for at least a.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Few weeks a month, a month.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
No, not even a month, two weeks, three weeks old.
He was born on May thirteenth.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Oh oh yeah, why do I feel?
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Okay? Yeah, so they don't want like any little kids
around him. And then obviously I had the ship going
out my throat and my voice. So I hopefully this
weekend I go see him.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Oh nice?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Yeah, So anyway again, and his name is al Al.
I knew Jay and l how's the new one? So anyway,
have a great weekend. Everybody, We'll talk on Monday. If
you feel inclined to do so over the weekend, you
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