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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Joe of the morning. It's funny how keV says something
and then does another. He's uh, He's told me a
couple of times. He's like, Yeah, I'm I'm done with dating,
I'm not seeing girls. I'm kind of taking care of myself.
I'm doing all this stuff. And then just a second ago,
he goes, so I had this girl over it.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
This wasn't one of those situations you can have people
of the opposite sex over and then not be a
sexual experience.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Right, Well, you said though that you're done. You said
it sounded like you said you were done completely, which
is girls.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
This isn't one of those type of situations that I was.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Then explain to me. This is a friend.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
This is a This is a friend, and my friend
came over and she ended up spending the night and
friend brought her, you know, overnight back because she knew
she was spending the night.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
This was this was a plan.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Did friend sleep in your better? Did friends sleep in
a different better of the couch?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
No, friend sleep in my bed. I'm not gonna let
friends sleep on the couch. That's that's feel feels. A
guy friend, yeah, he can sleep on the college, but
a female want to make sure she set up properly.
And the only other bed I have in the house
is josiahs No.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
I slept in my bed. My bed big enough for
the two of them.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Continue your story.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
We didn't cut it at all. I was on my side,
she was on her because she's my friend. Now, my
friend brought over her bag. I have silk pillows for
females who come over in case they don't bring a
hair wrap. That's nice friends. So I got the silk
(01:33):
pillow case, had it all ready for she needed a towel,
but she brought everything else to clothe.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
And all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
And she wanted to take a shower, So the shower
was dirty because I didn't clean it after I took
another shower. So I cleaned the shower so it could
be clean before she got in it. All right, So
while I was at work yesterday, excuse me, while I
was at work. While I was at work yesterday, she
(02:02):
left all right, text me seeing on the ring cam
leaving saying some things, and she was off. I get
back home and now my shower is dirty from when
she took her shower in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
What do you mean dirty?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I get I mean she was it was some dirt
in there. She had hair, some hair in there, and
then like some dirt.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Wait, what did you do play in the mud.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Or something like that, dirt Like y'all ever took showers
and it's been like a little dirt in the shower.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
So there's some there's some remnants of something that came
off of.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Her when she was okay, So in my mind, I
feel like I cleaned the shower for you. You should
have cleaned the shower when you left.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
So actually I kind of agree with keV here if
you it's the hair thing.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
For me, hair is different than dirt. You you got
to get rid of the hair.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
You cannot leave your hair on the wall, on the
on the floor on that. I really do think that's gross.
She should have done that.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
You say dirt is different. I was dirt different because
I used a shower. I'm not cleaning your shower.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
So you wanted the shower cleaned before you got into it,
why wouldn't you clean it for the next person.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Because I'm your guest. It's the same thing like when
you come over to my house and I cook for you.
I don't expect you to do the dishes.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
When you say clean the shower, do you mean like
for her to get out the Clorox spray or the
hilex and all that stuff.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I disagree with that, or just rinse it? Why did
she just rinse stuff?
Speaker 5 (03:28):
There?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
There we go. I got a shower hair. You could
pull that boy off so you can like aim it.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
I just wouldn't want to leave a mess because I
wouldn't want you to think that I was a disgusting person.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Right, So let's go back here real quick and you
tell us you know your thoughts on this, if you'd
like to. At eight four to four Mojo Live. I
don't have any girls that are hanging I don't want
any girls around. I'm done with girls. I'm hanging out
with girls. I got this friend, this female friend. You
can have friends. We sleep in the same bed together.
(03:57):
She brings an overnight bag to hang out at your house.
She takes showers in your place. What are you doing
your friends? Why are you having slumber parties?
Speaker 6 (04:08):
Y'all?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Don't have friends?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Come on, you and John Tallenger, you and my god,
it wants to play naked water polo.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
No, No, that was that was There's nothing naked that
was a mark he had. He has the water basketball
games at his house. No, here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
When your friends come over, they they can't take a
shower in your house.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
No, well, no, they can take showers at man. But
when I say if I said if I was single,
and I said I'm done with dating, I'm done girls,
I'm not even having the temptation because the problem with
him is these girls. He's lots of girlfriends, girls that
come over with their friends. He also tries to smash
some of these friends too. We have just so you know,
(04:48):
the shower.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
He doesn't care about that part of the story.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
You understand that I.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Have market to make my point, but he wants to
focus on the girls.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
We're here now. He said that he gave up girls.
All right, go ahead with the shower.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Friend, I should having a friend come over once to
spend time with you, talk to Let's.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Just focus on the shower. Let's not focus on the
fact that he's giving up girls and he's had this
girl sleeping in his bed with him. Let's focus on
the shower. Joe, what are your thoughts on this whole thing?
Speaker 6 (05:20):
Oh, I'm with Kevin on this. My skin, yeah, yeah,
my skin's more melanated. So when we shower, you know
that dead skin and that dirt from the day it
is visible in the shower. So when you leave it
on that white porcelain tub, right, got a ring around
the tub. My grandma used to a jax every Maybe.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Maybe that's what's different.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Should have but to expect your guest to like go
wherever you keep cleaning supplies and get that stuff in
a scrubber and do it.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Because it's like if I have people come stay the
night and they stay in a bed, I don't expect you.
It's nice when you make the bed. I don't expect
you to wash the sheets.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
They do a lot of.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Run the water around the toe. That's all it is.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Well, but I'm saying, get the dirt out. I don't
care how you do it. Get the dirt out now.
Now she did.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
She did make the beg thanks Roberta.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Maybe she wasn't aware that the shower.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
She left the shower dirty. Roberto, what's up? Hi, Hi Roberta?
Are you fantastic? What's going on? What are your thoughts
on this?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
My thoughts is it her lotion or oil that she
bought herself and that's what runs up and that left
left the degree behind. And as far as hair that
the grocery should have grabbed a tissue and wipe it.
And because she didn't rent the frame, because that could
have closed your dream.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
You know, you know what? This is the equivalent of
flushing the toilet and not looking back to make sure
everything went down. I think she she needed a double
flush on this one here and toilet. Does she need
to grab the clorox and then scrub it down? If
you leave something on me? But hope you would. What's out, Bashton?
Speaker 6 (07:09):
How you doing? I was just calling the touch on
the one subject about the friends spending the night. I
have two girlfriends that's like, and we're totally platonic and
they stay over all.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
The time and sleep in your back.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
Yeah. I let them have my bed and I just sleep.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Yeah, CAP's not giving up his bed. We were too hard.
Are you interested? Are you interested in women?
Speaker 6 (07:34):
Yeah? Of course I love women.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I just they're just friends.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
We've been friends for so long. It's just kind of
hard to see myself like being in that way with them.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Do you did okay? If she left dirt in the shower,
did she leave dirt on your sheets too. Did you
look at your sheets to see if their sheets were dirty?
She did not leave visible dirt on this, Okay, because
I'm wondering if if there's dirt in the shower and
she slept on that bed, then she what's up, Josh?
I all right the.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
First time long time, I just wanted to say that, Like,
if I get into somebody else's shower, like if I'm
visiting family or something, and there's like a big old hairball,
like that just needs to go.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
That's gross.
Speaker 6 (08:18):
Grow.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Yeah, have you ever ever done that?
Speaker 6 (08:21):
You need to get rid of that, and you need
to clean the shower when I go.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
When I go to friends houses, in their bathroom that
I use has a shower attached to it. If I
look in the shower and there's hair and stuff in
there too, I'm like, oh, that's like it's I don't know,
it's it is gross. Uh. Anna, I was up. It's
smoke Joe in the morning. What's going on? Anna?
Speaker 6 (08:41):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I agree with Kevin.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
When I when I'm biting by old my house, I
clean up my bathroom. So when you take a shower
to clean it up when you use the bathroom, I
make sure I want you to make sure everything goes down,
and I have a plunger. I have a jacking everythings
like the bathroom they able to you, that's how and
brought up whenever we took the we had.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
To clean it out. So that's just my first.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Question for you. Do you have any guy friends of
yours that you share bed with, uh that you go
over to their house?
Speaker 7 (09:14):
No, because I don't have no self control.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
I don't think Cavin, and I don't think Cavin does either.
I'm telling you, what, what is it about her that
that gives yourself my friend? That's your friend. I don't
believe you're trying to find something that isn't there. Yeah,
I don't know. That's well. I just think it's so
funny that you're like, yeah, I've been I gotta clear
my head. I'm done for this for a while. Lies
(09:38):
have been told. Are you still talking to some of
the other people though that you were with, like the
Prayer Girl and all the rest of those pistons
Joe of the morning. It's funny how keV says something
and then does another. He's uh, He's told me a
couple of times. He's like, Yeah, I'm I'm done with dating,
I'm not seeing girls. I'm kind of taking care of myself.
I'm doing all this stuff. And then just a second ago,
he goes, so I had this girl over it.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
This wasn't one of those situations you can have people
of the opposite sex over and then not be a
sexual experience.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Right, Well, you said though that you're done. You said
it sounded like you said you were done completely, which
is girls.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
This isn't one of those type of situations that I was.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Then explain to me. This is a friend.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
This is a This is a friend, and my friend
came over and she ended up spending the night and
friend brought her, you know, overnight back because she knew
she was spending the night.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
This was this was a plan.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Did friend sleep in your better? Did friends sleep in
a different better of the couch?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
No, friend sleep in my bed. I'm not gonna let
friends sleep on the couch. That's that's feel feels. A
guy friend, yeah, he can sleep on the college, but
a female want to make sure she set up properly.
And the only other bed I have in the house
is josiahs No.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
I slept in my bed. My bed big enough for
the two of them.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Continue your story.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
We didn't cut it at all. I was on my side,
she was on her because she's my friend. Now, my
friend brought over her bag. I have silk pillows for
females who come over in case they don't bring a
hair wrap. That's nice friends. So I got the silk
(01:33):
pillow case, had it all ready for she needed a towel,
but she brought everything else to clothe.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
And all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
And she wanted to take a shower, So the shower
was dirty because I didn't clean it after I took
another shower. So I cleaned the shower so it could
be clean before she got in it. All right, So
while I was at work yesterday, excuse me, while I
was at work. While I was at work yesterday, she
(02:02):
left all right, text me seeing on the ring cam
leaving saying some things, and she was off. I get
back home and now my shower is dirty from when
she took her shower in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
What do you mean dirty?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I get I mean she was it was some dirt
in there. She had hair, some hair in there, and
then like some dirt.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Wait, what did you do play in the mud.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Or something like that, dirt Like y'all ever took showers
and it's been like a little dirt in the shower.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
So there's some there's some remnants of something that came
off of.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Her when she was okay, So in my mind, I
feel like I cleaned the shower for you. You should
have cleaned the shower when you left.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
So actually I kind of agree with keV here if
you it's the hair thing.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
For me, hair is different than dirt. You you got
to get rid of the hair.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
You cannot leave your hair on the wall, on the
on the floor on that. I really do think that's gross.
She should have done that.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
You say dirt is different. I was dirt different because
I used a shower. I'm not cleaning your shower.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
So you wanted the shower cleaned before you got into it,
why wouldn't you clean it for the next person.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Because I'm your guest. It's the same thing like when
you come over to my house and I cook for you.
I don't expect you to do the dishes.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
When you say clean the shower, do you mean like
for her to get out the Clorox spray or the
hilex and all that stuff.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I disagree with that, or just rinse it? Why did
she just rinse stuff?
Speaker 5 (03:28):
There?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
There we go. I got a shower hair. You could
pull that boy off so you can like aim it.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
I just wouldn't want to leave a mess because I
wouldn't want you to think that I was a disgusting person.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Right, So let's go back here real quick and you
tell us you know your thoughts on this, if you'd
like to. At eight four to four Mojo Live. I
don't have any girls that are hanging I don't want
any girls around. I'm done with girls. I'm hanging out
with girls. I got this friend, this female friend. You
can have friends. We sleep in the same bed together.
(03:57):
She brings an overnight bag to hang out at your house.
She takes showers in your place. What are you doing
your friends? Why are you having slumber parties?
Speaker 6 (04:08):
Y'all?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Don't have friends?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Come on, you and John Tallenger, you and my god,
it wants to play naked water polo.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
No, No, that was that was There's nothing naked that
was a mark he had. He has the water basketball
games at his house. No, here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
When your friends come over, they they can't take a
shower in your house.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
No, well, no, they can take showers at man. But
when I say if I said if I was single,
and I said I'm done with dating, I'm done girls,
I'm not even having the temptation because the problem with
him is these girls. He's lots of girlfriends, girls that
come over with their friends. He also tries to smash
some of these friends too. We have just so you know,
(04:48):
the shower.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
He doesn't care about that part of the story.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
You understand that I.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Have market to make my point, but he wants to
focus on the girls.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
We're here now. He said that he gave up girls.
All right, go ahead with the shower.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Friend, I should having a friend come over once to
spend time with you, talk to Let's.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Just focus on the shower. Let's not focus on the
fact that he's giving up girls and he's had this
girl sleeping in his bed with him. Let's focus on
the shower. Joe, what are your thoughts on this whole thing?
Speaker 6 (05:20):
Oh, I'm with Kevin on this. My skin, yeah, yeah,
my skin's more melanated. So when we shower, you know
that dead skin and that dirt from the day it
is visible in the shower. So when you leave it
on that white porcelain tub, right, got a ring around
the tub. My grandma used to a jax every Maybe.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Maybe that's what's different.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Should have but to expect your guest to like go
wherever you keep cleaning supplies and get that stuff in
a scrubber and do it.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Because it's like if I have people come stay the
night and they stay in a bed, I don't expect you.
It's nice when you make the bed. I don't expect
you to wash the sheets.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
They do a lot of.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Run the water around the toe. That's all it is.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Well, but I'm saying, get the dirt out. I don't
care how you do it. Get the dirt out now.
Now she did.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
She did make the beg thanks Roberta.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Maybe she wasn't aware that the shower.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
She left the shower dirty. Roberto, what's up? Hi, Hi Roberta?
Are you fantastic? What's going on? What are your thoughts
on this?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
My thoughts is it her lotion or oil that she
bought herself and that's what runs up and that left
left the degree behind. And as far as hair that
the grocery should have grabbed a tissue and wipe it.
And because she didn't rent the frame, because that could
have closed your dream.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
You know, you know what? This is the equivalent of
flushing the toilet and not looking back to make sure
everything went down. I think she she needed a double
flush on this one here and toilet. Does she need
to grab the clorox and then scrub it down? If
you leave something on me? But hope you would. What's out, Bashton?
Speaker 6 (07:09):
How you doing? I was just calling the touch on
the one subject about the friends spending the night. I
have two girlfriends that's like, and we're totally platonic and
they stay over all.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
The time and sleep in your back.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
Yeah. I let them have my bed and I just sleep.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Yeah, CAP's not giving up his bed. We were too hard.
Are you interested? Are you interested in women?
Speaker 6 (07:34):
Yeah? Of course I love women.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I just they're just friends.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
We've been friends for so long. It's just kind of
hard to see myself like being in that way with them.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Do you did okay? If she left dirt in the shower,
did she leave dirt on your sheets too. Did you
look at your sheets to see if their sheets were dirty?
She did not leave visible dirt on this, Okay, because
I'm wondering if if there's dirt in the shower and
she slept on that bed, then she what's up, Josh?
I all right the.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
First time long time, I just wanted to say that, Like,
if I get into somebody else's shower, like if I'm
visiting family or something, and there's like a big old hairball,
like that just needs to go.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
That's gross.
Speaker 6 (08:18):
Grow.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Yeah, have you ever ever done that?
Speaker 6 (08:21):
You need to get rid of that, and you need
to clean the shower when I go.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
When I go to friends houses, in their bathroom that
I use has a shower attached to it. If I
look in the shower and there's hair and stuff in
there too, I'm like, oh, that's like it's I don't know,
it's it is gross. Uh. Anna, I was up. It's
smoke Joe in the morning. What's going on? Anna?
Speaker 6 (08:41):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I agree with Kevin.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
When I when I'm biting by old my house, I
clean up my bathroom. So when you take a shower
to clean it up when you use the bathroom, I
make sure I want you to make sure everything goes down,
and I have a plunger. I have a jacking everythings
like the bathroom they able to you, that's how and
brought up whenever we took the we had.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
To clean it out. So that's just my first.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Question for you. Do you have any guy friends of
yours that you share bed with, uh that you go
over to their house?
Speaker 7 (09:14):
No, because I don't have no self control.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
I don't think Cavin, and I don't think Cavin does either.
I'm telling you, what, what is it about her that
that gives yourself my friend? That's your friend. I don't
believe you're trying to find something that isn't there. Yeah,
I don't know. That's well. I just think it's so
funny that you're like, yeah, I've been I gotta clear
my head. I'm done for this for a while. Lies
(09:38):
have been told. Are you still talking to some of
the other people though that you were with, like the
Prayer Girl and all the rest of those pistons
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