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Speaker 1 (00:04):
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Speaker 2 (00:05):
I bet that's a good start.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
This is Tanner, Drew and Laura's Donkey Show, Donkey Show.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
What is happening Kids? What's up kids?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Thanks for checking out Tanner, Drew and Laura's Donkey Show podcast.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Yeah, Creepy Baby.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Heard online at one five nine dot com, all Right,
Heart Radio app or wherever you listen to podcasts. I'm Tanner,
Drew's here, Laura's here, bus rest, Marcus is here. Court
might join us here in just a few minutes. Today
was a fun show. I'm exhausted. I can always tell
when it's a good show when I'm like trying to
catch my breath after the show.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
It's just a lot happens, you know. There's so much
going on, some plans, some not.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
Yeah, I don't think it ever stopped down throughout the
whole show. There's a lot of action today.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
We were talking about this contest we're doing. We're trying
to give people Metallica's Load album on you know, digital download,
but you'll be qualified for the grand prize, which is
getting it on CD, cassette, vinyl and digitally, which is
pretty awesome to have all those things. You just got
to tell us why your dad deserves the load. So
download our iHeartRadio app and you might already have it.
(01:15):
Listened to us on it right now, and make sure
you send us a talk back message telling us.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Why your dad deserves the load.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
So while we were talking about that, I think Laura
made a crack about my me not having a daddy.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
I think it's something. Yeah, I don't think I made
a crack.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
I think let's go find your dad. And it felt emotionally,
it felt like I just said, hey, your dad never showed.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, it's so we started talking about that, and then
it took up a whole nine o'clock hour because I
do have I've never met my father, never spoken to
him nothing. I've never had any physical contact or even
a verbal code. Yeah, and I do have his email address.
I found his email address, I don't know, like two
years ago or something, yeah, something like that, and I
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just haven't I haven't done anything with it yet. I
just you know, he's never try to reach out to me.
So I do kind of feel like if I reach
out to him and he says like he doesn't wan
anything to do with me, it's gonna bother me. And
As of right now, I'm not really bothered by it,
but I think I will be if he just like
if I ride him and he's you know, if he
you know, just doesn't respond or doesn't want anything.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Yeah, And I think that's.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
The more likely scenario, is that if he doesn't want
to communicate with you, I think you just won't say anything.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't think he'll write you back and be like
fuck off, you know.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
I kind of like, you know, you think about it.
Outside of family, you don't hang out with anyone who
doesn't like you, right, Like true, if you know that
they choose not to like you or to participate in
your life, you choose not to do it with them too.
And now, well it hurts because that's blood. It also
at least closes the door of saying, Okay, well I
guess you're not the type of person that I want
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to be around. Yeah, and if you turn it that way.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
That's a good point. Yeah. Yeah. Now, now there are
a lot of gun points.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Tell everyone like, for the most part, most people said,
I think there's only like a handful of people that
said don't contact him.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Most people said did.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And I think people convinced me because I am definitely curious,
Like the curiosity's eating me alive. The older I get
it has eating me alive. Like I I you know,
I just would love to know some things. And I
don't know, I just I would like to have a father.
But I know it's not going to be like father's son.
Even if we do talk right, right, it's gonna be
almost like professionals.
Speaker 7 (03:22):
You could always just offer him to like a you know,
a good old fashioned showdown at the OK Corral. Meet
me at noon down at the Buffalo Wild Wings parking lot,
and we'll fight for the honor of of which one
of us is the better man. And if you win,
then you can ask him some questions. If he wins,
he fades back into the sunset and make a movie
about it.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
I think he's like seventy seven years old.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
It's all, yeah, it's an elder abuse this old man
into the ground. You're like I told you I had
you don't even know this guy. You could have called
to fight man my prime, but no, you wait till
a maybe.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
But we'll see.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Chances are I write something and that's the last of it,
but we'll see.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
I will do it. I just got to figure out
what I'm going to say and then send it.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
So, yeah, Marcus, he promised the audience. He went all
the way.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
I promise me, he said, I promise I.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Will do it.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
Well, well, I mean all jokes aside. I think you
should do whatever you feel is the right thing to do.
But I love your outlook on it that right now
you're like, it's not really affecting me right now, but
you know, writing him could affect me. I think understanding
that is a big part of this fight too, That
you might not get the answer that you want and
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that might prolong things a bit. But I think it's
good on you to do what you think you should do, dude.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
And we actually, you know, we had a big, long
conversation about it. But that is also how I feel.
I think that there are so many positives to doing it,
but I also zero percent wants you to do something
you're uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Well, we'll see what happens. I'm gonna send the email.
I'm gonna keep it you know short, It's going to
be professional. It's not gonna be sappy or accusatory or
anything like that was you know, it's gonna put the
communication out there and just see what happens.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
So what I'm looking for my dad? I'm not sure
if you're that guy?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
So are you going to write it?
Speaker 6 (05:04):
I'm assuming not like a work email, but like with
your email.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Email, probably my personal email.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, what does it say?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Your name?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Email address?
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Do be a little corny to send him an iHeart rate?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
Right?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Email?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Well maybe if you want us to know if I'm
successful or not.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, I guess, like, look at me, I have a job.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
See your other account?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah, I'll probably do for my personal account.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
So I don't know that, Like does he know I
know he knows my name.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I guess he at least knows your He knows you
and your last name for sure.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Yeah, it's gonna be weird.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
You're an easy look up for me.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
It's it's so weird because it's not It's like a
it's never been realistic for me, right, like having a
dad has never been a thing, and the thought of
it actually possibly being a thing is a very odd feeling.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
And it's interesting to hear your mom pivot a little
on because we've asked many times about your dad over
the years, and she used to push back on the
idea of your reach out way more than she does now.
And I don't know if it's time. Is one of
those things that with time, you know, you don't have
a ton of time to figure things out.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
So she said not the worst.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Idea when we asked her, which is different than sometimes
it's like just leave things alone or comments that make
you maybe double guess yourself.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Yeah, yeah, I hear you.
Speaker 7 (06:23):
He's so much like you that you can't handle it.
Like he picks up the phone, He's like, ganggang son,
what's up?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Great?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
I would be stoked.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
He's like, he's like, I cannot stand the cultural stuff
over here. You're looking back to play some.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Vis He's like, man grand theft auto next year. Huh,
it's gonna be awesome.
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Is on?
Speaker 5 (06:43):
Yeah, just send him an email about the countdown to GTA.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
But you know, this is one thing because I my father,
my real father, is a film professor, and I'm convinced
that that stuff is genetic.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Yeah, I bet you guys have so much in common.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yeah, because I'm I'm obsessed with that. I almost went
to school for film. That's that's what that was my plan.
Film and theater.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
Well, it wasn't it specifically porn.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
It was yeah, I.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Wanted to be direct direct.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
I just directed, and I'd love to edit. Just be
so desensitized by sex by the age thirty that.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
It doesn't I don't even do it myself anymore.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
No, but I was gonna do that, and I had
no I I guess I had an idea that he
did film, but I wasn't doing because that. I was
doing it because I was obsessed with it, like when
I was when I was a kid, I would be
able to notice similarities with movies. And this is before
like the Internet, so I didn't know, like, why does
that movie look exactly like that movie? And I'd find
out it because it'd because of the director, and that
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got me interested in like, oh, oh, so the director
is the one.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Who kind of like stylistic.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Yeah, they're the ones who kind of make the movie
look the way he does, And and that got me
obsessed with film, and in high school that's all I did.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
And uh and then you know, like so I wonder
if but like would he like, oh you like Marvel movies,
that's not cinema.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
I'm sure you feel it that way. I mean, if
he's a if he's a professor, they all I'm sure,
look right down their nose at Marvel. Probably not that
it's not entertaining. You just know how those classes are my.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Fat American son watching that garbage.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Yeah, they want to do something. They're gonna make you
watch a movie that Laura would watch on an old
dusty couch for eleven bucks.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
That's right, that is right.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
But probably I guess like he's pretty uh like for
like film professors. I guess he's a big deal. They
made a short film about him, which I've never seen.
I've tried to find it. I found the movie poster
for it, but ever seen the film and it's just
you know, it's just called his name.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
And is it in Bollywood style?
Speaker 4 (08:37):
I wish I wish it's in Farsi, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:40):
Yeah, so it's gonna be a little hard for us
to understand, but I bet you could if you could
get a hold of it. You could google translates.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Well, you could also subtitle it.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
You could, yeah, probably set that it was just on
the standard TV.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Yeah, so thanks for bringing that up today, Laura, appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
You're welcome.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Great stuff.
Speaker 5 (08:56):
He's got the ultimate Trump card though, because she's got
a dead dad, you know, and it's like, well, you
don't understand what kind of and glorious.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
I will give Lauri some credit, like I do think strong,
I do think the father not being there is leading
to some issues today.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
But I do think that which.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
I'm unpacking in therapy. Thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
Yeah that's good.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
But yeah, yeah, lor does a good job of like
hiding your emotions really well.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
But I feel like that you always say that, but
I don't feel like that's a compliment. Well it is,
and it isn't because I think I don't let it
affect like my work life or things like that, but but.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
It comes out in its own time.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah, but you I think that's good because you don't
want people to think you're whatever you know.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
And they don't.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
But it's also impacted the relationships that I have with
other people, you know. I think it manifests itself in ways.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
You're not that well.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
I noticed this talking to your mom, like you guys,
just there's not a lot of emotional talk there.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
There's like no talk, well no there is, there is not.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
We don't talk about our feelings in my family very
much though, Like this this week and it'll be Father's Day.
If I call my dad and I start showering him
with compliment, he will stop that conversation almost immediately. Okay, well, yeah,
I appreciate that, but stop because it's uncomfortable. Like we
don't we never talked about sex. We never talked about
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it and any of the deep stuff.
Speaker 6 (10:12):
But I mean and stuff like that. And maybe it's
different because like I'm a girl, but it's like, not
that I wanted to have that conversation with a parent,
because that's awkward and weird and uncomfortable.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
It was, no, but.
Speaker 6 (10:26):
I feel like it would have been nice to have
a heads up, you know, growing up, Like a lot
of that stuff impacted the way that I grew up,
Like my coming of age years were probably a little
more difficult than I should have than they should have
been because I was completely unprepared in that way. So
it's like, uh, yeah, I don't know, not that having
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a dad around would have would have changed that, but
it may have given me a different outlook on how
I present myself and how I.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Because I always will say like, oh, well, I'm sad
I didn't get to this experience and this experience with
the father, and then my mom will say, well, you know,
I'm kind of outing some of my personal business here.
But uh, my stepdad's not the He's a great guy,
but he is just kind of.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
A he's not really a couple.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Yeah, he's not really present. He's just he's kind of
like a child sometimes.
Speaker 5 (11:20):
And he wouldn't be able to be that figure that
you were looking for. Yeah, that exact you know, Yeah,
dust off your boots, buddy, we're going outside, or you're
doing this now or that type of a deal.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah, not necessarily the role model you want to look
up to.
Speaker 5 (11:35):
Because like most of the things, the dadding things that
you missed out on are not things you want to
hear from your dad. Like my dad pulled me off
a couch by my foot on a Saturday morning because
I've done nothing like those types of things I hated
growing up. But I look at him now and that's
those are the things that I needed. Yeah, and so yeah,
none of it's fun, No, when he's disciplining you or
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being like you're not a man, you're a bitch.
Speaker 6 (11:59):
Yeah, But I also feel like Drew, for you, like
being that presence and because you don't have any sons obviously,
but for your daughters, that's such an important role because
it's like I feel like my self worth and like
my value took a hit because I didn't have a
man telling me, hey, don't let anybody talk to you
like this, or you know, treat yourself with respecting other people,
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you know that kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Sorry, My point was is that, you know, like I
would be like, oh, I don't have a dad, I'm
bummed out about it, and then my mom would be like, well,
your brother has a dad and it's a fucking nightmare.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
It's true.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
Yeah, so it's not always a good thing.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yeah, just because you have a dad doesn't mean it's
going to be yeah better.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
But but I wish, like I just you know, I
look at people who've got like Marcus is in a
situation where him and his dad are like best friends.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
You know, yeah, it's a cool relationship.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
And I, you know, I just wish I had something
like that. It which somebody took me out hunting or
got me into sports, because I don't give a shit
about sports. And I think it's because I didn't like
nobody ever sat me down and said, you know, watch this,
watch some football.
Speaker 5 (12:55):
Yeah, it wasn't that bonding moment, right, Yeah, And with
even like you know, as I transition into the parenting thing,
it's funny how you you see the little voids that
you wanted, Like I wanted my dad to tell me
that I was a badass or something, but like, you
have so many siblings and it's the eighties and he's
from a time where your dad never compliments you. That's why,
Like like this morning and I told you guys this
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that you're like, I filmed a little video for my
girls on the last day of school, and I told
him each that they were beautiful and I said these things,
and like, you know, I got a message back from
my wife that was, like that meant a lot to them,
and they'll remember.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
They will, they'll remember that, you know, And it's like.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
Those types of things it would Earlier this morning, I
was running late.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
I told, hopefully they'll find a man that treats them
like that.
Speaker 5 (13:37):
Right, I hope so, And when a man tells them
that they're not good enough, they'll say, sorry, dude, you're wrong,
you're a dipshit, because I already know I'm worried.
Speaker 4 (13:47):
You're dumb, but you're you're definitely good enough.
Speaker 5 (13:49):
Yeah, So I mean, I mean, it's it's an ongoing
battle to try and do it the right way, and
I screw it up all the time.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I think I was talking to friend about this over
the weekend. I think I'd be a really good dad
because of that, you know, like there's no love hard.
There was no way I could see myself bailing or
just not being present or not making them the number
one priority. Like I just to me, that's and that's
kind of why I don't want to have a kid,
because I know that's exactly wherever all my attention will go,
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all my energy and my money.
Speaker 5 (14:19):
I'd work at McDonald's for them. You know again, I
do love McDonald's, but anything free. My friend Ralph got
a job at McDonald's within six months.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
That dude ballooned up.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Yeah, because at the time, I don't know if it
is anymore, but at the time he got one free
meal a day and he used it.
Speaker 5 (14:34):
Somebody walked through this lobby today with an egg McMuffin
and I didn't see it, but I smelled it, and
it was criminal. How bad I wanted one?
Speaker 4 (14:43):
Yeah, they're good.
Speaker 5 (14:44):
Yeah, if you taught me all day long being disaster,
so many knacks.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Uh, Marcus, what do you plan to do for your daddy?
Your dad on Sunday?
Speaker 5 (14:54):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (14:55):
You know, the distance makes it tough. I don't get
home for Father's Day really ever, which I hate, but
as always, my mom, my sister and I got together.
My dad is really hard to shop for because he
won't tell you. He's one of those guys that's like, ah,
just don't get me anything, or you know, it's either
that or it's like, well, I need a new Chevy Durromax,
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you know, and it's like tongue in cheek type shit.
Speaker 4 (15:19):
But we found out.
Speaker 7 (15:20):
My mom did some sleuth and we got him a
new golf GPS, which I love. We all went in
on together, and you know, I'll send him a card.
The phone calls that my dad and I have between
each other are really I think, what kind of keeps
the relationship as strong as it is. And so that
phone call. I could do nothing on Father's Day other
than call my dad talk to him about, you know,
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what sporting events are going on, whether or not we're
in for our tags, whatever he's into, and that would
be more than enough for him. But we found something
this year that's cool and not just another golf shirt.
Which is normally the route that I go.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
Yeah, the most important gift that you'll give him is
to tell him that he is the man.
Speaker 7 (16:03):
He's a He is an avid listener of my trucking
podcast that I do for work, and so we do
we do a Father's Day special where we get drivers
in to talk about their dads and and talk about
being dads and everything. And I always whenever we do
something like that, he always gets a special message at
the end, just like if we do Mother's Day.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
I always leave a special message at the end for him.
Speaker 7 (16:25):
And honestly, I think that means more than anything else
because it's kind of saying it in front of people,
you know, Like last year, he called me a bit
choked up last year, and I do not hear my
dad or see my dad cry, ever, and I could
tell that it got to him. So I went ahead
and the layer to another one of those on him
this year too.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
Oh yeah, keep the tears going nice.
Speaker 6 (16:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
I did read uh and in one of our news
preps over the over the weekend that.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Uh Father's Day or what was it?
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Are you going to talk about?
Speaker 6 (16:56):
How you just calling and telling him that like he
made a difference in your growing up.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
No, No, it's like what dads really want is not
a gift.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
It was more like something like that or just some
piece of quiet, like what mom wants. Yeah, they like
that's really what They don't really want physical things, just
you know, let them have some time away or just
tell them you know that stuff that you kind of
you feel awkward.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Yeah, like yeah, like hey, you always supported me in
that mental lift and like that.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
That was the number one thing I think was just
telling them that, you know, something like hey, I thank
you for always supporting me.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
Think you've always being there. That's the shit they want
to hear.
Speaker 6 (17:30):
Yeah, and like, hey, you know, being proud of somebody.
Just saying that to them and sharing that with them
is So.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
I just all that because my dad has already shucked
off the gift and he's out of the country, so
I won't see him on Father's Day, but I will
have that phone call and he'll only he's on the
like a tour bus, so I only have a couple
of minutes. But I've already thought about what to say
to him, and you know, and it makes me emotional
to think about the fact that I kind of sold
him short for many years thinking he was just the
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guy who like went to work and came back and
didn't care about me. But they had sacrificed everything. So
I'll tell him that I'm the dad I am because
of him.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
So yeah, I bet he would love to hear that.
Speaker 5 (18:10):
Yeah, And it makes me not sad, it's happy tears,
but it's also that's where he goes. I thought I
told you to be a man, you little bitch.
Speaker 7 (18:19):
But I think you know, there's all these studies that
you hear about men in general. This doesn't really apply
to you know, only dads in their seventies or dads
in their thirties, right, but they say that like men
in general just don't get a lot of that reassurance
and that kind of you know, praise for doing the
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things that they do. A lot of sacrifice goes into
a lot of dad's lives, a lot of I mean,
my dad worked sixty hours a week every single week
I was home, and you know that's it doesn't sound
like much, but twenty extra hours a week that with
his kids and his wife, it adds up over the years,
and that can dude, if you don't know what to
give your dad for Father's Day, A heartfelt call in
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conversation might just be all you need. Yeah, a lot
of dads go without the thanks that they probably deserve.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
And a piano tie the keyboard will set you free.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Well, I'm gonna write them, so I'll let you guys
know what happens. You know, it probably be a little
bit before I do it.
Speaker 5 (19:20):
Good luck.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
I gotta figure it out. But what I'm gonna say,
but yeah, I think I'm gonna do it. Why not?
Speaker 1 (19:24):
You guys made a good point, Like just like what
one listener said, you know what, do you got to lose?
Speaker 5 (19:29):
One shot, one opportunity the great Mathers ones.
Speaker 6 (19:31):
Do not miss your chance to blow This opportunity comes
once in a lifetime.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
You meadow email your dad.
Speaker 4 (19:40):
All right.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
Uh, this just happened right at the tail end of
the show. We didn't get a chance to talk about
it on the radio, But Brian Wilson of the Beach
Boys has passed away at eighty two years old.
Speaker 6 (19:51):
I think, yeah, which I feel like he's pretty young.
But Drew you said he had dementia.
Speaker 5 (19:55):
He did have dementia, and you know, the Beach Boys
have been losing some people over time. But it's like,
eventually this is gonna happen to all those bands. But
they've been big since the sixties.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Oh yeah, it's been around a long time.
Speaker 6 (20:08):
I mean we didn't really listen to secular music, as
they say, but yeah, we always we had the Beach
Boys on in the car. That was one of the
one of the bands that we listened to on road trips.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
M hm. I liked him ever since the movie Flight
of the Navigator. There's a scene where they're listening to that.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
I get him roun no, no, not.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Not not and the kids flying the spaceship and it's
it was the first time I heard a song.
Speaker 4 (20:36):
I was like, this song's awesome.
Speaker 5 (20:38):
Yeah, it was go ahead.
Speaker 7 (20:41):
I got to hand it to him as kind of
the last of a dying breed. Do we get many
rock stars that were at the level of the Beach
Boys that are living to eighty two these days? I mean,
save for the Rolling Stones and Ozzy Osbourne, you don't
have too many of them that make it this long.
It's a good run. It's sad that he got dementia,
but that's a good run for a rock star.
Speaker 5 (21:00):
Yeah. Yeah, I mean his brother was in the band
and he wrote it hard and put it away wet.
He died in eighty three, so you know that's quite
a bit longer. That's our entire lives. That the band
continued after the initial tragedies.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Yeah, a pretty incredible run, and it's sad to see
him go. I would assume that they'll continue with other
members and just I feel like it's a brand.
Speaker 5 (21:24):
Yeah, and they'll get a young version and just run
it in Vegas.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
And people too, because I do feel like that's going
to happen when these bands retire, you know, Aerosmith, Alady has,
but like these big, massive bands, when Metallica is done,
Kiss apparently has been rumored to think about doing this.
But I feel like cover bands are going to be
a thing in the future. The handpicked, endorsed version by
the band, Yeah, like Lynard Skinnard is basically a cover band.
(21:49):
I don't think there's even an original member in the band.
Speaker 5 (21:51):
They're done with the ogs, but point.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
I mean, like I just see that happening.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
You know, whether there always will be in ac DC
because somebody, somebody's else is just going to take over.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
The instrument, harry on their legacy.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
You know, I'm fine with you know what's wild as
you think about it, and you know, like people are
covering old songs that we grew up tour that were
slightly before our time, and the younger generation doesn't even know.
It's not a new song, right, and we're talking about
big songs. So if that's happening, Yeah, twenty years from now,
they won't even have a frame of reference on Aerosmith.
(22:25):
They're like, oh, that was a band. No, not the
band we have now, an older band. They're like, I
don't get it.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
I almost feel like.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
A format of radio station in the future, like fifty
hundred years from now will be songs you've forgotten about,
you know, like oldies that you forgot about.
Speaker 5 (22:39):
Because there's going to be such a bank of mets.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
Because there's so much.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
They say, more music comes out in one day than
all of nineteen eighty eight.
Speaker 5 (22:46):
Yeah, and I'm sure that's going up every day, those percentages.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
Yeah, because everyone's got access to pro tools or logic
pro and so yeah, I just assume that Metallica will
always tour Kiss Is Time because how I just needed
some people who could play and to put on the paint.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
Yeah, So I don't know, we'll see what happens there.
Speaker 1 (23:03):
It's already happening with bands like Foreigner and those people
are such original members.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
Oh for sure.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
Quiet Wright's the same thing. I think there's only one.
It's the drummer.
Speaker 5 (23:10):
And I've gone to.
Speaker 4 (23:13):
No go ahead, Drew.
Speaker 5 (23:14):
I was gonna say, I've gone to these tribute bands
many times, and the longer it goes, they're getting pretty good.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Like Arnelle Pineda is you know, he sounds just like
people don't care and they still go see Journey.
Speaker 6 (23:27):
Right, And I mean you think about it the other day.
I mean it's been a couple of weeks ago. Now,
I guess when you played the clip from the guy
who was doing the sound check for Guns N' Roses, Yeah,
he's sounded a million times better than Axel Rose, he did,
you know what I mean? So I was like, of
course people will go and see that.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
Did you ever hear that, Marcus?
Speaker 5 (23:44):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (23:45):
I did, And you're exactly right. Axel Rose hasn't sounded
good for decades.
Speaker 4 (23:49):
This guy was bl axl Rose Away. Listen if you have.
Speaker 5 (24:08):
Good when they're not on tour. He works at big
lots exactly.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Yeah, crazy, these these some of these roadies are better
than the actual musicians are setting up for.
Speaker 7 (24:17):
Yeah, I think you give John Stamos the appropriate amount
of cocaine and put him on the residency in Vegas.
We can watch him play all the parts from the
Beach Boys songs.
Speaker 5 (24:28):
Players with him. So yeah, keep Stamos, replace the rest.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
All right?
Speaker 1 (24:34):
What else did we not discuss today? Laura stepped in
in cat vomit this morning? Is walking around with vomitoes
all day?
Speaker 2 (24:40):
I did do that.
Speaker 5 (24:41):
Yes, it's all you know up from there, it's fine.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Yeah, See, the day can't get worse after you step
in cap barf.
Speaker 4 (24:51):
What else do you mean to talk about? Let me
see this sheet here? Uh, Marcus? Have you ever blown
up tooth?
Speaker 6 (25:00):
Out?
Speaker 4 (25:00):
You ever broken a tooth?
Speaker 7 (25:02):
I've got a small chipped one actually that's been with
me for years now. I was eating an oyster and
I bit down and a little tiny bit of sand
in there chipped a piece right out of the front
of one of my top front teeth.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
You don't notice an oyster, Yeah, you just you just
let it slide right down.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
Not everyone throats it, Laura, Why would you? Yeah, but
you're not an extra person, so you're taking it down
like a you.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Know it's so slimy? So is dare you?
Speaker 6 (25:37):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (25:37):
Yeah, they taste a lot of people eat.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
How do you know? How do you know what that
that tastes like?
Speaker 5 (25:44):
I didn't taste I didn't say what it tastes like.
I've touched it. It's my own stuff. You want to
know how I know the texture of jizz?
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Come on, has it been in your mouth?
Speaker 5 (25:53):
No?
Speaker 4 (25:54):
You never tasted it like your own jiz?
Speaker 6 (25:56):
No, I.
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Haven't blow it. I mean that is that is kind
of an you've never never been curious?
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Just like I had a friend of mine asked me
the same question, You ever tasted your own gibs?
Speaker 4 (26:09):
And I said fuck no? And he says, dude, you
should try it. It's good.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Don't it's not good? I mean, don't listen, don't.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
I mean, I feel like, just like that friend, just
want you to come back and say I did try
like you douche like I.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
Didn't really, I was what? But I don't know. I
just feel like there's a lot of curious people out there.
Speaker 4 (26:26):
I figured, I'm sure, I bet, I bet if it's
if one and three? Did it? Marcus? Definitely?
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Have you done it?
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (26:33):
Of course not.
Speaker 7 (26:34):
He's like accidentally got up in there around the area
and it happened, but I didn't do it, like it
wasn't conscious.
Speaker 5 (26:41):
Oh so you have taste?
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Did you like lick the lips?
Speaker 7 (26:43):
All those I'm more supposed to be a joke, But
nobody laughed nowhere near my mouth as my own jis
ever ever been.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
I actually, uh, I can't say the same. I accidentally,
uh blew a little on my own face once I
was I was j oing, been very aggressive.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
It was a very big one.
Speaker 5 (27:06):
And what are you staring at?
Speaker 1 (27:08):
This is what I was. I sometimes I use my imagination.
It's not always born, and this time was an imagination day.
And yeah, I was doing it and it was a
powerful It was kind of a big one and a
little got on my chin.
Speaker 5 (27:19):
Man, Between that and your heart on in the vegetable,
we've learned a lot.
Speaker 4 (27:24):
Just I was thinking about.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
You missed it? We missed that?
Speaker 7 (27:30):
How long is your tongue or did you use a
finger to.
Speaker 4 (27:33):
Just No, I was, I was using my hand and
doing my thing, and.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
He said it got on your chin, So how'd you
taste it?
Speaker 6 (27:40):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (27:40):
I didn't taste it? No, I'm not saying I taste it.
I just said it landed on my face. Laura, Yeah,
I just landed on my chin, and I do.
Speaker 4 (27:47):
You think it's wrong?
Speaker 5 (27:49):
I didn't open my mouth.
Speaker 4 (27:50):
I boot cockied myself.
Speaker 6 (27:51):
Oh no, that's not possible. Else who else was in
the room. Isn't boot cocky more than one?
Speaker 4 (27:57):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (27:57):
Well, I well he was out of the money shot
on my spent some time in there.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
And I know that because I had to look up
what boukcocky was recently. I didn't know what it was.
And then I was like, oh my god, but that makes.
Speaker 5 (28:08):
Sense culture geez.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
So I don't know why I shared that story. I
regret it now.
Speaker 6 (28:12):
It's very trustful this morning, Marcus, you missed the show.
When we were talking, we were talking to Tanner's mom
on the phone, and she told a story about how
long time they were in the grocery store and he
saw like some vegetables that aroused him apparently and said.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Mom My, peanuts is staff?
Speaker 4 (28:29):
I probably had a pe or something?
Speaker 7 (28:31):
Yeah, was it the bananas or the cantalopes?
Speaker 5 (28:33):
That's all I wanted to do it. Come give him
some credit. It's the low.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
I didn't even know that story until we were on
the air.
Speaker 5 (28:38):
So I'm like, thanks Mike, thanks boy, you're kind of
throw I got no way to defend myself. Yeah, I
bet you.
Speaker 6 (28:43):
I bet your mom made it up. But now your
nickname is a little Chubb. Regardless, I don't know she
may have made it up.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
I've never known that.
Speaker 5 (28:50):
It wasn't a massive chub.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
Yeah you don't know. That's a little chubb, but a
little kid who was packing.
Speaker 5 (28:57):
Yeah, exactly straight heat. Every thing I got I got
by ten.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
Wow, hasn't changed.
Speaker 7 (29:04):
So so your nickname, your nickname is a little chubb,
and mine became the tongue last week. You and I
need to start an afternoon show little Chubby.
Speaker 5 (29:13):
Laura and I are gonna be on a bread line.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
I'd listen to that show. I would listen to it too. Well, Uh,
there's that, okay, So what else?
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Oh this is In a new survey, they found that
fifty percent of men are repelled by women who wear
too much makeup.
Speaker 5 (29:32):
Yeah, absolutely, I will see. There's a there's a fine
line on makeup. If you wear too much, it's gross.
Speaker 6 (29:37):
I do feel like sometimes it's like, man, we can't win,
and like I'm not somebody who wears a lot of makeup.
Speaker 5 (29:42):
I never be a cake face.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
But it's like but also then it's like, if you.
Speaker 6 (29:45):
Don't wear makeup, guys are like, well, you gotta take
her swimming on the first and then to see if
she's like if her natural beauty is attractive enough for you.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
It's like we just we can't. We just can't do
anything right now.
Speaker 5 (29:57):
I don't know how much makeup you have on right now,
which I do I do like to not be aware
of because I think you're wearing the appropriate amount.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
I'm not wearing any I don't think you're wearing for.
Speaker 5 (30:09):
You though that's perfect. Then it needs to look like
it's not makeup.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
But it certainly is like a more like quote unquote
natural look.
Speaker 5 (30:18):
So I get so you have nothing on your face.
Speaker 6 (30:21):
I have a little concealer to cover some to cover
some sun spots, but it's not like full face.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
It's like spot treatments.
Speaker 5 (30:29):
If I was wearing concealer, though, you'd be like makeup.
Speaker 4 (30:32):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
I never think like gross. I wouldn't use the word
repelled right, but like.
Speaker 5 (30:38):
It comes off on my shirt, I do like it.
Speaker 4 (30:41):
I don't hate I do hate that, but too much.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
I'm not like grossed out by it. I guess I'm
just kind of annoyed that I have to get it
out of my shirt now. But when I do see, like,
I'm obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter. I think she's so hot,
but I do think there's times where she puts way
too much makeup on it. She looks greasy.
Speaker 6 (30:57):
Yeah, and it's like it almost looks like like you said,
like cakey, Like you can tell how there's like a thickness.
Speaker 5 (31:04):
It's a light makes and that you almost see a dusting.
It's not actual dust, but like a texture to it.
Speaker 4 (31:09):
It's not strack. That grosses me out too.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
But when I see you shine like like a wet apple,
you know, that's also very I don't like it.
Speaker 6 (31:17):
And I also feel like it translates better in pictures,
so like when you're wearing a ton of makeup on
Instagram or whatever, it's going to make your face look better,
But when you see that in person, you're like, oh God,
you're wearing so much makeup. And I feel like we've
kind of been conditioned to look at women that way.
It's like in photos, yeah, she's super hot, Yeah, because
(31:37):
she is a pound of makeup on as and has
been photoshopped, and then you see it in real life
and you're like, that's not what I had in mind.
Speaker 5 (31:45):
I like smoking mirror natural, right, So it looks natural
to me because I'm just some dude. But you've probably
used a little something to do whatever it is you
do when your face happened on your time, and I'll
just enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 5 (31:59):
That's kind of where I'm at.
Speaker 4 (32:00):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 5 (32:00):
And I get that Marcus.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
I thought Marcus had something.
Speaker 6 (32:04):
Sorry.
Speaker 7 (32:05):
Oh, I mean I did kind of go through two
stages of this because when I was younger, in my twenties,
I didn't care that it didn't matter if you had
a lot of makeup on. It might matter if I
see you without it on and then make a judgment call.
But back when I was at the bar sniffing about,
you know, trying to find anything that would go home,
I didn't care.
Speaker 4 (32:24):
Nowadays, it definitely it's gonna take.
Speaker 7 (32:31):
My wife is big into the makeup and always has been,
you know, likes to likes to spend some time putting
herself together. I think it's it's about finding somebody that
you can put up with.
Speaker 4 (32:41):
Their level of it.
Speaker 7 (32:42):
Because at this point, if I was with somebody that
was worse than what she is, I think it would
get under my skin. I think I found like I
walked right up to the line and right at the threshold.
Speaker 6 (32:52):
And I also feel like a lot of times it's
like and I can't say that some women do not
do this, but it's like men. Men tend to believe
that women are putting on a full face of makeup
for men, But a lot of women just like enjoy just.
Speaker 4 (33:07):
Want to feel good. You look good, feel good?
Speaker 2 (33:09):
Yeah, like playing around with makeup.
Speaker 6 (33:11):
It's like an expression of creativity.
Speaker 1 (33:14):
Some of these people on like TikTok can make themselves
look like different people. They do these things where they
can with makeup, just makeup, can make themselves look like
a different person or shape change the shape of their face.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Oh yeah, it's impressive, Like it's a skill.
Speaker 4 (33:31):
I can't.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
I can't do my makeup like that, you know.
Speaker 4 (33:33):
But all right, well there it is.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
Yeah, just you know, lay off then the concealer is fine,
just lay up the cake. Thanks not you.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
Yeah, my face doesn't look cakey.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
No, no, never, I've never thought even when you went
to the Renaissance fair.
Speaker 4 (33:48):
You put a little eyeliner on, and.
Speaker 2 (33:50):
I don't have any eyelashes right now, but I was
dress whatever.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
It looks, it's good, but I notice it.
Speaker 6 (33:56):
I even try to keep it toned down even when
I'm dressing up. You know, it's just not my style here.
Speaker 1 (34:00):
What I like about you is that you don't go overboard,
and when you do put a lot of makeup on,
which is rare, it's like noticeable, and it's not even
a lot, it's just more than she normally does.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
And it looks fun.
Speaker 5 (34:11):
Well, you don't.
Speaker 4 (34:12):
It looks good. It just looks you look fine.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (34:17):
No, you don't have to.
Speaker 3 (34:20):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (34:20):
I don't see myself hugging Laura. She's like Doug anyway.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
But I'm not gonna leave.
Speaker 4 (34:24):
Yeah, I don't think she'd cake my shoulder.
Speaker 5 (34:26):
The three hugs she gave me in my life, all
of them had no cake.
Speaker 4 (34:31):
And she's getting up here.
Speaker 7 (34:32):
I've gotten two hugs from Laura now, and so I
might be I might be creeping on first place. If
Drew's gotten three, that's I gotta be get. I gotta
be top too.
Speaker 6 (34:40):
I almost tend to hug strangers more, just because I
expect that they.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
Yeah, I also don't come at her because I know
she doesn't like it.
Speaker 7 (34:48):
Right, So I was I was hands in pockets the
last time you came at me when I came down
for for for the cookof I remember you stepped up
and gave me a hug, and it surprised me a
second time because I've heard all of this, but it's uh,
I'm two hugs deep now, someone like you know.
Speaker 5 (35:03):
For someone who doesn't like to hug, Laura hugs a lot. Well,
Marcus is playing pocket pool during the hug. It was
a weird look.
Speaker 2 (35:09):
I'm like, bro, can you at least like hug back.
Speaker 4 (35:11):
Or one hand? But it's a floater. I'm not touching you.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
Yeah, I don't want to.
Speaker 4 (35:17):
Yeah, all right, we will see you tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
If you're listening to this on jun eleventh and we're
recording it, we've got more tickets to the Offspring at
seven thirty.
Speaker 4 (35:25):
Nine, terminated.
Speaker 3 (35:28):
You've been listening to Tanner, Drew and Laura's Donkey show
heard daily at one oh five nine that brew dot com.
May God have mercy on all of our souls.
Let me know when you're ready.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I bet that's a good start.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
This is Tanner, Drew and Laura's Donkey Show, Donkey Show.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
What is happening Kids? What's up kids?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Thanks for checking out Tanner, Drew and Laura's Donkey Show podcast.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Yeah, Creepy Baby.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Heard online at one five nine dot com, all Right,
Heart Radio app or wherever you listen to podcasts. I'm Tanner,
Drew's here, Laura's here, bus rest, Marcus is here. Court
might join us here in just a few minutes. Today
was a fun show. I'm exhausted. I can always tell
when it's a good show when I'm like trying to
catch my breath after the show.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
It's just a lot happens, you know. There's so much
going on, some plans, some not.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
Yeah, I don't think it ever stopped down throughout the
whole show. There's a lot of action today.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
We were talking about this contest we're doing. We're trying
to give people Metallica's Load album on you know, digital download,
but you'll be qualified for the grand prize, which is
getting it on CD, cassette, vinyl and digitally, which is
pretty awesome to have all those things. You just got
to tell us why your dad deserves the load. So
download our iHeartRadio app and you might already have it.
(01:15):
Listened to us on it right now, and make sure
you send us a talk back message telling us.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Why your dad deserves the load.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
So while we were talking about that, I think Laura
made a crack about my me not having a daddy.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
I think it's something. Yeah, I don't think I made
a crack.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
I think let's go find your dad. And it felt emotionally,
it felt like I just said, hey, your dad never showed.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, it's so we started talking about that, and then
it took up a whole nine o'clock hour because I
do have I've never met my father, never spoken to
him nothing. I've never had any physical contact or even
a verbal code. Yeah, and I do have his email address.
I found his email address, I don't know, like two
years ago or something, yeah, something like that, and I
(01:56):
just haven't I haven't done anything with it yet. I
just you know, he's never try to reach out to me.
So I do kind of feel like if I reach
out to him and he says like he doesn't wan
anything to do with me, it's gonna bother me. And
As of right now, I'm not really bothered by it,
but I think I will be if he just like
if I ride him and he's you know, if he
you know, just doesn't respond or doesn't want anything.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Yeah, And I think that's.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
The more likely scenario, is that if he doesn't want
to communicate with you, I think you just won't say anything.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't think he'll write you back and be like
fuck off, you know.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
I kind of like, you know, you think about it.
Outside of family, you don't hang out with anyone who
doesn't like you, right, Like true, if you know that
they choose not to like you or to participate in
your life, you choose not to do it with them too.
And now, well it hurts because that's blood. It also
at least closes the door of saying, Okay, well I
guess you're not the type of person that I want
(02:48):
to be around. Yeah, and if you turn it that way.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
That's a good point. Yeah. Yeah. Now, now there are
a lot of gun points.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Tell everyone like, for the most part, most people said,
I think there's only like a handful of people that
said don't contact him.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Most people said did.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And I think people convinced me because I am definitely curious,
Like the curiosity's eating me alive. The older I get
it has eating me alive. Like I I you know,
I just would love to know some things. And I
don't know, I just I would like to have a father.
But I know it's not going to be like father's son.
Even if we do talk right, right, it's gonna be
almost like professionals.
Speaker 7 (03:22):
You could always just offer him to like a you know,
a good old fashioned showdown at the OK Corral. Meet
me at noon down at the Buffalo Wild Wings parking lot,
and we'll fight for the honor of of which one
of us is the better man. And if you win,
then you can ask him some questions. If he wins,
he fades back into the sunset and make a movie
about it.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
I think he's like seventy seven years old.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
It's all, yeah, it's an elder abuse this old man
into the ground. You're like I told you I had
you don't even know this guy. You could have called
to fight man my prime, but no, you wait till
a maybe.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
But we'll see.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Chances are I write something and that's the last of it,
but we'll see.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
I will do it. I just got to figure out
what I'm going to say and then send it.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
So, yeah, Marcus, he promised the audience. He went all
the way.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
I promise me, he said, I promise I.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Will do it.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
Well, well, I mean all jokes aside. I think you
should do whatever you feel is the right thing to do.
But I love your outlook on it that right now
you're like, it's not really affecting me right now, but
you know, writing him could affect me. I think understanding
that is a big part of this fight too, That
you might not get the answer that you want and
(04:26):
that might prolong things a bit. But I think it's
good on you to do what you think you should do, dude.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
And we actually, you know, we had a big, long
conversation about it. But that is also how I feel.
I think that there are so many positives to doing it,
but I also zero percent wants you to do something
you're uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Well, we'll see what happens. I'm gonna send the email.
I'm gonna keep it you know short, It's going to
be professional. It's not gonna be sappy or accusatory or
anything like that was you know, it's gonna put the
communication out there and just see what happens.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
So what I'm looking for my dad? I'm not sure
if you're that guy?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
So are you going to write it?
Speaker 6 (05:04):
I'm assuming not like a work email, but like with
your email.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Email, probably my personal email.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, what does it say?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Your name?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Email address?
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Do be a little corny to send him an iHeart rate?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
Right?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Email?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Well maybe if you want us to know if I'm
successful or not.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, I guess, like, look at me, I have a job.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
See your other account?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah, I'll probably do for my personal account.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
So I don't know that, Like does he know I
know he knows my name.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I guess he at least knows your He knows you
and your last name for sure.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Yeah, it's gonna be weird.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
You're an easy look up for me.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
It's it's so weird because it's not It's like a
it's never been realistic for me, right, like having a
dad has never been a thing, and the thought of
it actually possibly being a thing is a very odd feeling.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
And it's interesting to hear your mom pivot a little
on because we've asked many times about your dad over
the years, and she used to push back on the
idea of your reach out way more than she does now.
And I don't know if it's time. Is one of
those things that with time, you know, you don't have
a ton of time to figure things out.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
So she said not the worst.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Idea when we asked her, which is different than sometimes
it's like just leave things alone or comments that make
you maybe double guess yourself.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Yeah, yeah, I hear you.
Speaker 7 (06:23):
He's so much like you that you can't handle it.
Like he picks up the phone, He's like, ganggang son,
what's up?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Great?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
I would be stoked.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
He's like, he's like, I cannot stand the cultural stuff
over here. You're looking back to play some.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Vis He's like, man grand theft auto next year. Huh,
it's gonna be awesome.
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Is on?
Speaker 5 (06:43):
Yeah, just send him an email about the countdown to GTA.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
But you know, this is one thing because I my father,
my real father, is a film professor, and I'm convinced
that that stuff is genetic.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Yeah, I bet you guys have so much in common.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yeah, because I'm I'm obsessed with that. I almost went
to school for film. That's that's what that was my plan.
Film and theater.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
Well, it wasn't it specifically porn.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
It was yeah, I.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Wanted to be direct direct.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
I just directed, and I'd love to edit. Just be
so desensitized by sex by the age thirty that.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
It doesn't I don't even do it myself anymore.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
No, but I was gonna do that, and I had
no I I guess I had an idea that he
did film, but I wasn't doing because that. I was
doing it because I was obsessed with it, like when
I was when I was a kid, I would be
able to notice similarities with movies. And this is before
like the Internet, so I didn't know, like, why does
that movie look exactly like that movie? And I'd find
out it because it'd because of the director, and that
(07:38):
got me interested in like, oh, oh, so the director
is the one.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Who kind of like stylistic.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Yeah, they're the ones who kind of make the movie
look the way he does, And and that got me
obsessed with film, and in high school that's all I did.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
And uh and then you know, like so I wonder
if but like would he like, oh you like Marvel movies,
that's not cinema.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
I'm sure you feel it that way. I mean, if
he's a if he's a professor, they all I'm sure,
look right down their nose at Marvel. Probably not that
it's not entertaining. You just know how those classes are my.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Fat American son watching that garbage.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Yeah, they want to do something. They're gonna make you
watch a movie that Laura would watch on an old
dusty couch for eleven bucks.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
That's right, that is right.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
But probably I guess like he's pretty uh like for
like film professors. I guess he's a big deal. They
made a short film about him, which I've never seen.
I've tried to find it. I found the movie poster
for it, but ever seen the film and it's just
you know, it's just called his name.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
And is it in Bollywood style?
Speaker 4 (08:37):
I wish I wish it's in Farsi, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:40):
Yeah, so it's gonna be a little hard for us
to understand, but I bet you could if you could
get a hold of it. You could google translates.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Well, you could also subtitle it.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
You could, yeah, probably set that it was just on
the standard TV.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Yeah, so thanks for bringing that up today, Laura, appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
You're welcome.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Great stuff.
Speaker 5 (08:56):
He's got the ultimate Trump card though, because she's got
a dead dad, you know, and it's like, well, you
don't understand what kind of and glorious.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
I will give Lauri some credit, like I do think strong,
I do think the father not being there is leading
to some issues today.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
But I do think that which.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
I'm unpacking in therapy. Thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
Yeah that's good.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
But yeah, yeah, lor does a good job of like
hiding your emotions really well.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
But I feel like that you always say that, but
I don't feel like that's a compliment. Well it is,
and it isn't because I think I don't let it
affect like my work life or things like that, but but.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
It comes out in its own time.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah, but you I think that's good because you don't
want people to think you're whatever you know.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
And they don't.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
But it's also impacted the relationships that I have with
other people, you know. I think it manifests itself in ways.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
You're not that well.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
I noticed this talking to your mom, like you guys,
just there's not a lot of emotional talk there.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
There's like no talk, well no there is, there is not.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
We don't talk about our feelings in my family very
much though, Like this this week and it'll be Father's Day.
If I call my dad and I start showering him
with compliment, he will stop that conversation almost immediately. Okay, well, yeah,
I appreciate that, but stop because it's uncomfortable. Like we
don't we never talked about sex. We never talked about
(10:11):
it and any of the deep stuff.
Speaker 6 (10:12):
But I mean and stuff like that. And maybe it's
different because like I'm a girl, but it's like, not
that I wanted to have that conversation with a parent,
because that's awkward and weird and uncomfortable.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
It was, no, but.
Speaker 6 (10:26):
I feel like it would have been nice to have
a heads up, you know, growing up, Like a lot
of that stuff impacted the way that I grew up,
Like my coming of age years were probably a little
more difficult than I should have than they should have
been because I was completely unprepared in that way. So
it's like, uh, yeah, I don't know, not that having
(10:49):
a dad around would have would have changed that, but
it may have given me a different outlook on how
I present myself and how I.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Because I always will say like, oh, well, I'm sad
I didn't get to this experience and this experience with
the father, and then my mom will say, well, you know,
I'm kind of outing some of my personal business here.
But uh, my stepdad's not the He's a great guy,
but he is just kind of.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
A he's not really a couple.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Yeah, he's not really present. He's just he's kind of
like a child sometimes.
Speaker 5 (11:20):
And he wouldn't be able to be that figure that
you were looking for. Yeah, that exact you know, Yeah,
dust off your boots, buddy, we're going outside, or you're
doing this now or that type of a deal.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah, not necessarily the role model you want to look
up to.
Speaker 5 (11:35):
Because like most of the things, the dadding things that
you missed out on are not things you want to
hear from your dad. Like my dad pulled me off
a couch by my foot on a Saturday morning because
I've done nothing like those types of things I hated
growing up. But I look at him now and that's
those are the things that I needed. Yeah, and so yeah,
none of it's fun, No, when he's disciplining you or
(11:57):
being like you're not a man, you're a bitch.
Speaker 6 (11:59):
Yeah, But I also feel like Drew, for you, like
being that presence and because you don't have any sons obviously,
but for your daughters, that's such an important role because
it's like I feel like my self worth and like
my value took a hit because I didn't have a
man telling me, hey, don't let anybody talk to you
like this, or you know, treat yourself with respecting other people,
(12:20):
you know that kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Sorry, My point was is that, you know, like I
would be like, oh, I don't have a dad, I'm
bummed out about it, and then my mom would be like, well,
your brother has a dad and it's a fucking nightmare.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
It's true.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
Yeah, so it's not always a good thing.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yeah, just because you have a dad doesn't mean it's
going to be yeah better.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
But but I wish, like I just you know, I
look at people who've got like Marcus is in a
situation where him and his dad are like best friends.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
You know, yeah, it's a cool relationship.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
And I, you know, I just wish I had something
like that. It which somebody took me out hunting or
got me into sports, because I don't give a shit
about sports. And I think it's because I didn't like
nobody ever sat me down and said, you know, watch this,
watch some football.
Speaker 5 (12:55):
Yeah, it wasn't that bonding moment, right, Yeah, And with
even like you know, as I transition into the parenting thing,
it's funny how you you see the little voids that
you wanted, Like I wanted my dad to tell me
that I was a badass or something, but like, you
have so many siblings and it's the eighties and he's
from a time where your dad never compliments you. That's why,
Like like this morning and I told you guys this
(13:17):
that you're like, I filmed a little video for my
girls on the last day of school, and I told
him each that they were beautiful and I said these things,
and like, you know, I got a message back from
my wife that was, like that meant a lot to them,
and they'll remember.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
They will, they'll remember that, you know, And it's like.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
Those types of things it would Earlier this morning, I
was running late.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
I told, hopefully they'll find a man that treats them
like that.
Speaker 5 (13:37):
Right, I hope so, And when a man tells them
that they're not good enough, they'll say, sorry, dude, you're wrong,
you're a dipshit, because I already know I'm worried.
Speaker 4 (13:47):
You're dumb, but you're you're definitely good enough.
Speaker 5 (13:49):
Yeah, So I mean, I mean, it's it's an ongoing
battle to try and do it the right way, and
I screw it up all the time.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I think I was talking to friend about this over
the weekend. I think I'd be a really good dad
because of that, you know, like there's no love hard.
There was no way I could see myself bailing or
just not being present or not making them the number
one priority. Like I just to me, that's and that's
kind of why I don't want to have a kid,
because I know that's exactly wherever all my attention will go,
(14:17):
all my energy and my money.
Speaker 5 (14:19):
I'd work at McDonald's for them. You know again, I
do love McDonald's, but anything free. My friend Ralph got
a job at McDonald's within six months.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
That dude ballooned up.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Yeah, because at the time, I don't know if it
is anymore, but at the time he got one free
meal a day and he used it.
Speaker 5 (14:34):
Somebody walked through this lobby today with an egg McMuffin
and I didn't see it, but I smelled it, and
it was criminal. How bad I wanted one?
Speaker 4 (14:43):
Yeah, they're good.
Speaker 5 (14:44):
Yeah, if you taught me all day long being disaster,
so many knacks.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Uh, Marcus, what do you plan to do for your daddy?
Your dad on Sunday?
Speaker 5 (14:54):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (14:55):
You know, the distance makes it tough. I don't get
home for Father's Day really ever, which I hate, but
as always, my mom, my sister and I got together.
My dad is really hard to shop for because he
won't tell you. He's one of those guys that's like, ah,
just don't get me anything, or you know, it's either
that or it's like, well, I need a new Chevy Durromax,
(15:16):
you know, and it's like tongue in cheek type shit.
Speaker 4 (15:19):
But we found out.
Speaker 7 (15:20):
My mom did some sleuth and we got him a
new golf GPS, which I love. We all went in
on together, and you know, I'll send him a card.
The phone calls that my dad and I have between
each other are really I think, what kind of keeps
the relationship as strong as it is. And so that
phone call. I could do nothing on Father's Day other
than call my dad talk to him about, you know,
(15:42):
what sporting events are going on, whether or not we're
in for our tags, whatever he's into, and that would
be more than enough for him. But we found something
this year that's cool and not just another golf shirt.
Which is normally the route that I go.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
Yeah, the most important gift that you'll give him is
to tell him that he is the man.
Speaker 7 (16:03):
He's a He is an avid listener of my trucking
podcast that I do for work, and so we do
we do a Father's Day special where we get drivers
in to talk about their dads and and talk about
being dads and everything. And I always whenever we do
something like that, he always gets a special message at
the end, just like if we do Mother's Day.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
I always leave a special message at the end for him.
Speaker 7 (16:25):
And honestly, I think that means more than anything else
because it's kind of saying it in front of people,
you know, Like last year, he called me a bit
choked up last year, and I do not hear my
dad or see my dad cry, ever, and I could
tell that it got to him. So I went ahead
and the layer to another one of those on him
this year too.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
Oh yeah, keep the tears going nice.
Speaker 6 (16:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
I did read uh and in one of our news
preps over the over the weekend that.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Uh Father's Day or what was it?
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Are you going to talk about?
Speaker 6 (16:56):
How you just calling and telling him that like he
made a difference in your growing up.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
No, No, it's like what dads really want is not
a gift.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
It was more like something like that or just some
piece of quiet, like what mom wants. Yeah, they like
that's really what They don't really want physical things, just
you know, let them have some time away or just
tell them you know that stuff that you kind of
you feel awkward.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Yeah, like yeah, like hey, you always supported me in
that mental lift and like that.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
That was the number one thing I think was just
telling them that, you know, something like hey, I thank
you for always supporting me.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
Think you've always being there. That's the shit they want
to hear.
Speaker 6 (17:30):
Yeah, and like, hey, you know, being proud of somebody.
Just saying that to them and sharing that with them
is So.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
I just all that because my dad has already shucked
off the gift and he's out of the country, so
I won't see him on Father's Day, but I will
have that phone call and he'll only he's on the
like a tour bus, so I only have a couple
of minutes. But I've already thought about what to say
to him, and you know, and it makes me emotional
to think about the fact that I kind of sold
him short for many years thinking he was just the
(17:59):
guy who like went to work and came back and
didn't care about me. But they had sacrificed everything. So
I'll tell him that I'm the dad I am because
of him.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
So yeah, I bet he would love to hear that.
Speaker 5 (18:10):
Yeah, And it makes me not sad, it's happy tears,
but it's also that's where he goes. I thought I
told you to be a man, you little bitch.
Speaker 7 (18:19):
But I think you know, there's all these studies that
you hear about men in general. This doesn't really apply
to you know, only dads in their seventies or dads
in their thirties, right, but they say that like men
in general just don't get a lot of that reassurance
and that kind of you know, praise for doing the
(18:40):
things that they do. A lot of sacrifice goes into
a lot of dad's lives, a lot of I mean,
my dad worked sixty hours a week every single week
I was home, and you know that's it doesn't sound
like much, but twenty extra hours a week that with
his kids and his wife, it adds up over the years,
and that can dude, if you don't know what to
give your dad for Father's Day, A heartfelt call in
(19:02):
conversation might just be all you need. Yeah, a lot
of dads go without the thanks that they probably deserve.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
And a piano tie the keyboard will set you free.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Well, I'm gonna write them, so I'll let you guys
know what happens. You know, it probably be a little
bit before I do it.
Speaker 5 (19:20):
Good luck.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
I gotta figure it out. But what I'm gonna say,
but yeah, I think I'm gonna do it. Why not?
Speaker 1 (19:24):
You guys made a good point, Like just like what
one listener said, you know what, do you got to lose?
Speaker 5 (19:29):
One shot, one opportunity the great Mathers ones.
Speaker 6 (19:31):
Do not miss your chance to blow This opportunity comes
once in a lifetime.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
You meadow email your dad.
Speaker 4 (19:40):
All right.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
Uh, this just happened right at the tail end of
the show. We didn't get a chance to talk about
it on the radio, But Brian Wilson of the Beach
Boys has passed away at eighty two years old.
Speaker 6 (19:51):
I think, yeah, which I feel like he's pretty young.
But Drew you said he had dementia.
Speaker 5 (19:55):
He did have dementia, and you know, the Beach Boys
have been losing some people over time. But it's like,
eventually this is gonna happen to all those bands. But
they've been big since the sixties.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Oh yeah, it's been around a long time.
Speaker 6 (20:08):
I mean we didn't really listen to secular music, as
they say, but yeah, we always we had the Beach
Boys on in the car. That was one of the
one of the bands that we listened to on road trips.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
M hm. I liked him ever since the movie Flight
of the Navigator. There's a scene where they're listening to that.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
I get him roun no, no, not.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Not not and the kids flying the spaceship and it's
it was the first time I heard a song.
Speaker 4 (20:36):
I was like, this song's awesome.
Speaker 5 (20:38):
Yeah, it was go ahead.
Speaker 7 (20:41):
I got to hand it to him as kind of
the last of a dying breed. Do we get many
rock stars that were at the level of the Beach
Boys that are living to eighty two these days? I mean,
save for the Rolling Stones and Ozzy Osbourne, you don't
have too many of them that make it this long.
It's a good run. It's sad that he got dementia,
but that's a good run for a rock star.
Speaker 5 (21:00):
Yeah. Yeah, I mean his brother was in the band
and he wrote it hard and put it away wet.
He died in eighty three, so you know that's quite
a bit longer. That's our entire lives. That the band
continued after the initial tragedies.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Yeah, a pretty incredible run, and it's sad to see
him go. I would assume that they'll continue with other
members and just I feel like it's a brand.
Speaker 5 (21:24):
Yeah, and they'll get a young version and just run
it in Vegas.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
And people too, because I do feel like that's going
to happen when these bands retire, you know, Aerosmith, Alady has,
but like these big, massive bands, when Metallica is done,
Kiss apparently has been rumored to think about doing this.
But I feel like cover bands are going to be
a thing in the future. The handpicked, endorsed version by
the band, Yeah, like Lynard Skinnard is basically a cover band.
(21:49):
I don't think there's even an original member in the band.
Speaker 5 (21:51):
They're done with the ogs, but point.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
I mean, like I just see that happening.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
You know, whether there always will be in ac DC
because somebody, somebody's else is just going to take over.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
The instrument, harry on their legacy.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
You know, I'm fine with you know what's wild as
you think about it, and you know, like people are
covering old songs that we grew up tour that were
slightly before our time, and the younger generation doesn't even know.
It's not a new song, right, and we're talking about
big songs. So if that's happening, Yeah, twenty years from now,
they won't even have a frame of reference on Aerosmith.
(22:25):
They're like, oh, that was a band. No, not the
band we have now, an older band. They're like, I
don't get it.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
I almost feel like.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
A format of radio station in the future, like fifty
hundred years from now will be songs you've forgotten about,
you know, like oldies that you forgot about.
Speaker 5 (22:39):
Because there's going to be such a bank of mets.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
Because there's so much.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
They say, more music comes out in one day than
all of nineteen eighty eight.
Speaker 5 (22:46):
Yeah, and I'm sure that's going up every day, those percentages.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
Yeah, because everyone's got access to pro tools or logic
pro and so yeah, I just assume that Metallica will
always tour Kiss Is Time because how I just needed
some people who could play and to put on the paint.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
Yeah, So I don't know, we'll see what happens there.
Speaker 1 (23:03):
It's already happening with bands like Foreigner and those people
are such original members.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
Oh for sure.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
Quiet Wright's the same thing. I think there's only one.
It's the drummer.
Speaker 5 (23:10):
And I've gone to.
Speaker 4 (23:13):
No go ahead, Drew.
Speaker 5 (23:14):
I was gonna say, I've gone to these tribute bands
many times, and the longer it goes, they're getting pretty good.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Like Arnelle Pineda is you know, he sounds just like
people don't care and they still go see Journey.
Speaker 6 (23:27):
Right, And I mean you think about it the other day.
I mean it's been a couple of weeks ago. Now,
I guess when you played the clip from the guy
who was doing the sound check for Guns N' Roses, Yeah,
he's sounded a million times better than Axel Rose, he did,
you know what I mean? So I was like, of
course people will go and see that.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
Did you ever hear that, Marcus?
Speaker 5 (23:44):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (23:45):
I did, And you're exactly right. Axel Rose hasn't sounded
good for decades.
Speaker 4 (23:49):
This guy was bl axl Rose Away. Listen if you have.
Speaker 5 (24:08):
Good when they're not on tour. He works at big
lots exactly.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Yeah, crazy, these these some of these roadies are better
than the actual musicians are setting up for.
Speaker 7 (24:17):
Yeah, I think you give John Stamos the appropriate amount
of cocaine and put him on the residency in Vegas.
We can watch him play all the parts from the
Beach Boys songs.
Speaker 5 (24:28):
Players with him. So yeah, keep Stamos, replace the rest.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
All right?
Speaker 1 (24:34):
What else did we not discuss today? Laura stepped in
in cat vomit this morning? Is walking around with vomitoes
all day?
Speaker 2 (24:40):
I did do that.
Speaker 5 (24:41):
Yes, it's all you know up from there, it's fine.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Yeah, See, the day can't get worse after you step
in cap barf.
Speaker 4 (24:51):
What else do you mean to talk about? Let me
see this sheet here? Uh, Marcus? Have you ever blown
up tooth?
Speaker 6 (25:00):
Out?
Speaker 4 (25:00):
You ever broken a tooth?
Speaker 7 (25:02):
I've got a small chipped one actually that's been with
me for years now. I was eating an oyster and
I bit down and a little tiny bit of sand
in there chipped a piece right out of the front
of one of my top front teeth.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
You don't notice an oyster, Yeah, you just you just
let it slide right down.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
Not everyone throats it, Laura, Why would you? Yeah, but
you're not an extra person, so you're taking it down
like a you.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Know it's so slimy? So is dare you?
Speaker 6 (25:37):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (25:37):
Yeah, they taste a lot of people eat.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
How do you know? How do you know what that
that tastes like?
Speaker 5 (25:44):
I didn't taste I didn't say what it tastes like.
I've touched it. It's my own stuff. You want to
know how I know the texture of jizz?
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Come on, has it been in your mouth?
Speaker 5 (25:53):
No?
Speaker 4 (25:54):
You never tasted it like your own jiz?
Speaker 6 (25:56):
No, I.
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Haven't blow it. I mean that is that is kind
of an you've never never been curious?
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Just like I had a friend of mine asked me
the same question, You ever tasted your own gibs?
Speaker 4 (26:09):
And I said fuck no? And he says, dude, you
should try it. It's good.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Don't it's not good? I mean, don't listen, don't.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
I mean, I feel like, just like that friend, just
want you to come back and say I did try
like you douche like I.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
Didn't really, I was what? But I don't know. I
just feel like there's a lot of curious people out there.
Speaker 4 (26:26):
I figured, I'm sure, I bet, I bet if it's
if one and three? Did it? Marcus? Definitely?
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Have you done it?
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (26:33):
Of course not.
Speaker 7 (26:34):
He's like accidentally got up in there around the area
and it happened, but I didn't do it, like it
wasn't conscious.
Speaker 5 (26:41):
Oh so you have taste?
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Did you like lick the lips?
Speaker 7 (26:43):
All those I'm more supposed to be a joke, But
nobody laughed nowhere near my mouth as my own jis
ever ever been.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
I actually, uh, I can't say the same. I accidentally,
uh blew a little on my own face once I
was I was j oing, been very aggressive.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
It was a very big one.
Speaker 5 (27:06):
And what are you staring at?
Speaker 1 (27:08):
This is what I was. I sometimes I use my imagination.
It's not always born, and this time was an imagination day.
And yeah, I was doing it and it was a
powerful It was kind of a big one and a
little got on my chin.
Speaker 5 (27:19):
Man, Between that and your heart on in the vegetable,
we've learned a lot.
Speaker 4 (27:24):
Just I was thinking about.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
You missed it? We missed that?
Speaker 7 (27:30):
How long is your tongue or did you use a
finger to.
Speaker 4 (27:33):
Just No, I was, I was using my hand and
doing my thing, and.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
He said it got on your chin, So how'd you
taste it?
Speaker 6 (27:40):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (27:40):
I didn't taste it? No, I'm not saying I taste it.
I just said it landed on my face. Laura, Yeah,
I just landed on my chin, and I do.
Speaker 4 (27:47):
You think it's wrong?
Speaker 5 (27:49):
I didn't open my mouth.
Speaker 4 (27:50):
I boot cockied myself.
Speaker 6 (27:51):
Oh no, that's not possible. Else who else was in
the room. Isn't boot cocky more than one?
Speaker 4 (27:57):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (27:57):
Well, I well he was out of the money shot
on my spent some time in there.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
And I know that because I had to look up
what boukcocky was recently. I didn't know what it was.
And then I was like, oh my god, but that makes.
Speaker 5 (28:08):
Sense culture geez.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
So I don't know why I shared that story. I
regret it now.
Speaker 6 (28:12):
It's very trustful this morning, Marcus, you missed the show.
When we were talking, we were talking to Tanner's mom
on the phone, and she told a story about how
long time they were in the grocery store and he
saw like some vegetables that aroused him apparently and said.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Mom My, peanuts is staff?
Speaker 4 (28:29):
I probably had a pe or something?
Speaker 7 (28:31):
Yeah, was it the bananas or the cantalopes?
Speaker 5 (28:33):
That's all I wanted to do it. Come give him
some credit. It's the low.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
I didn't even know that story until we were on
the air.
Speaker 5 (28:38):
So I'm like, thanks Mike, thanks boy, you're kind of
throw I got no way to defend myself. Yeah, I
bet you.
Speaker 6 (28:43):
I bet your mom made it up. But now your
nickname is a little Chubb. Regardless, I don't know she
may have made it up.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
I've never known that.
Speaker 5 (28:50):
It wasn't a massive chub.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
Yeah you don't know. That's a little chubb, but a
little kid who was packing.
Speaker 5 (28:57):
Yeah, exactly straight heat. Every thing I got I got
by ten.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
Wow, hasn't changed.
Speaker 7 (29:04):
So so your nickname, your nickname is a little chubb,
and mine became the tongue last week. You and I
need to start an afternoon show little Chubby.
Speaker 5 (29:13):
Laura and I are gonna be on a bread line.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
I'd listen to that show. I would listen to it too. Well, Uh,
there's that, okay, So what else?
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Oh this is In a new survey, they found that
fifty percent of men are repelled by women who wear
too much makeup.
Speaker 5 (29:32):
Yeah, absolutely, I will see. There's a there's a fine
line on makeup. If you wear too much, it's gross.
Speaker 6 (29:37):
I do feel like sometimes it's like, man, we can't win,
and like I'm not somebody who wears a lot of makeup.
Speaker 5 (29:42):
I never be a cake face.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
But it's like but also then it's like, if you.
Speaker 6 (29:45):
Don't wear makeup, guys are like, well, you gotta take
her swimming on the first and then to see if
she's like if her natural beauty is attractive enough for you.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
It's like we just we can't. We just can't do
anything right now.
Speaker 5 (29:57):
I don't know how much makeup you have on right now,
which I do I do like to not be aware
of because I think you're wearing the appropriate amount.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
I'm not wearing any I don't think you're wearing for.
Speaker 5 (30:09):
You though that's perfect. Then it needs to look like
it's not makeup.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
But it certainly is like a more like quote unquote
natural look.
Speaker 5 (30:18):
So I get so you have nothing on your face.
Speaker 6 (30:21):
I have a little concealer to cover some to cover
some sun spots, but it's not like full face.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
It's like spot treatments.
Speaker 5 (30:29):
If I was wearing concealer, though, you'd be like makeup.
Speaker 4 (30:32):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
I never think like gross. I wouldn't use the word
repelled right, but like.
Speaker 5 (30:38):
It comes off on my shirt, I do like it.
Speaker 4 (30:41):
I don't hate I do hate that, but too much.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
I'm not like grossed out by it. I guess I'm
just kind of annoyed that I have to get it
out of my shirt now. But when I do see, like,
I'm obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter. I think she's so hot,
but I do think there's times where she puts way
too much makeup on it. She looks greasy.
Speaker 6 (30:57):
Yeah, and it's like it almost looks like like you said,
like cakey, Like you can tell how there's like a thickness.
Speaker 5 (31:04):
It's a light makes and that you almost see a dusting.
It's not actual dust, but like a texture to it.
Speaker 4 (31:09):
It's not strack. That grosses me out too.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
But when I see you shine like like a wet apple,
you know, that's also very I don't like it.
Speaker 6 (31:17):
And I also feel like it translates better in pictures,
so like when you're wearing a ton of makeup on
Instagram or whatever, it's going to make your face look better,
But when you see that in person, you're like, oh God,
you're wearing so much makeup. And I feel like we've
kind of been conditioned to look at women that way.
It's like in photos, yeah, she's super hot, Yeah, because
(31:37):
she is a pound of makeup on as and has
been photoshopped, and then you see it in real life
and you're like, that's not what I had in mind.
Speaker 5 (31:45):
I like smoking mirror natural, right, So it looks natural
to me because I'm just some dude. But you've probably
used a little something to do whatever it is you
do when your face happened on your time, and I'll
just enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 5 (31:59):
That's kind of where I'm at.
Speaker 4 (32:00):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 5 (32:00):
And I get that Marcus.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
I thought Marcus had something.
Speaker 6 (32:04):
Sorry.
Speaker 7 (32:05):
Oh, I mean I did kind of go through two
stages of this because when I was younger, in my twenties,
I didn't care that it didn't matter if you had
a lot of makeup on. It might matter if I
see you without it on and then make a judgment call.
But back when I was at the bar sniffing about,
you know, trying to find anything that would go home,
I didn't care.
Speaker 4 (32:24):
Nowadays, it definitely it's gonna take.
Speaker 7 (32:31):
My wife is big into the makeup and always has been,
you know, likes to likes to spend some time putting
herself together. I think it's it's about finding somebody that
you can put up with.
Speaker 4 (32:41):
Their level of it.
Speaker 7 (32:42):
Because at this point, if I was with somebody that
was worse than what she is, I think it would
get under my skin. I think I found like I
walked right up to the line and right at the threshold.
Speaker 6 (32:52):
And I also feel like a lot of times it's
like and I can't say that some women do not
do this, but it's like men. Men tend to believe
that women are putting on a full face of makeup
for men, But a lot of women just like enjoy just.
Speaker 4 (33:07):
Want to feel good. You look good, feel good?
Speaker 2 (33:09):
Yeah, like playing around with makeup.
Speaker 6 (33:11):
It's like an expression of creativity.
Speaker 1 (33:14):
Some of these people on like TikTok can make themselves
look like different people. They do these things where they
can with makeup, just makeup, can make themselves look like
a different person or shape change the shape of their face.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Oh yeah, it's impressive, Like it's a skill.
Speaker 4 (33:31):
I can't.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
I can't do my makeup like that, you know.
Speaker 4 (33:33):
But all right, well there it is.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
Yeah, just you know, lay off then the concealer is fine,
just lay up the cake. Thanks not you.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
Yeah, my face doesn't look cakey.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
No, no, never, I've never thought even when you went
to the Renaissance fair.
Speaker 4 (33:48):
You put a little eyeliner on, and.
Speaker 2 (33:50):
I don't have any eyelashes right now, but I was
dress whatever.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
It looks, it's good, but I notice it.
Speaker 6 (33:56):
I even try to keep it toned down even when
I'm dressing up. You know, it's just not my style here.
Speaker 1 (34:00):
What I like about you is that you don't go overboard,
and when you do put a lot of makeup on,
which is rare, it's like noticeable, and it's not even
a lot, it's just more than she normally does.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
And it looks fun.
Speaker 5 (34:11):
Well, you don't.
Speaker 4 (34:12):
It looks good. It just looks you look fine.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (34:17):
No, you don't have to.
Speaker 3 (34:20):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (34:20):
I don't see myself hugging Laura. She's like Doug anyway.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
But I'm not gonna leave.
Speaker 4 (34:24):
Yeah, I don't think she'd cake my shoulder.
Speaker 5 (34:26):
The three hugs she gave me in my life, all
of them had no cake.
Speaker 4 (34:31):
And she's getting up here.
Speaker 7 (34:32):
I've gotten two hugs from Laura now, and so I
might be I might be creeping on first place. If
Drew's gotten three, that's I gotta be get. I gotta
be top too.
Speaker 6 (34:40):
I almost tend to hug strangers more, just because I
expect that they.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
Yeah, I also don't come at her because I know
she doesn't like it.
Speaker 7 (34:48):
Right, So I was I was hands in pockets the
last time you came at me when I came down
for for for the cookof I remember you stepped up
and gave me a hug, and it surprised me a
second time because I've heard all of this, but it's uh,
I'm two hugs deep now, someone like you know.
Speaker 5 (35:03):
For someone who doesn't like to hug, Laura hugs a lot. Well,
Marcus is playing pocket pool during the hug. It was
a weird look.
Speaker 2 (35:09):
I'm like, bro, can you at least like hug back.
Speaker 4 (35:11):
Or one hand? But it's a floater. I'm not touching you.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
Yeah, I don't want to.
Speaker 4 (35:17):
Yeah, all right, we will see you tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
If you're listening to this on jun eleventh and we're
recording it, we've got more tickets to the Offspring at
seven thirty.
Speaker 4 (35:25):
Nine, terminated.
Speaker 3 (35:28):
You've been listening to Tanner, Drew and Laura's Donkey show
heard daily at one oh five nine that brew dot com.
May God have mercy on all of our souls.
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