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Speaker 1 (00:00):
There's a website called Bold you guys ever heard of Bold?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:03):
No, I'd go there. Sometimes they find cool articles and stuff,
like there's an article on that right now called these
current dating trends were unthinkable twenty years ago, And I
was like, well, that's interesting, let's get into it.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Like finding your significant other online.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Let's see like ghosting. Ghosting is number one, Like ghosting
instead of breaking up like an adult, Like that was
unthinkable twenty years ago.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
That's true. You had to come up with the reason
why you didn't want to go out. In fact, we
would have discussions like, well, you don't want to go
out with you know whatever, the white pants lady. But
you've got to come up with the reason to contact
them and say why you don't want to go out again.
You would never just disappear.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Oh like this, This one number ten on the list
is orbiting. Do you guys know what orbiting is? No? No,
Orbiting is watching all your stories but never actually texting
you back. Right, you've seen that you've heard of? That
makes sense. We all have friends that do that, probably,
right Peyton, Yeah, sure, you watch the stories of a
comment never do anything, uh bread crumbing? Do you guys,
remember what bread crumbing.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Is like leading someone on?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Yeah, bread crumbing. He keeps someone hooked without committing twenty
years ago. That never happened. Liking someone's Instagram story as
a way of flirting. I get that.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Yeah, that's a thing. Like, especially with my single friends
that are dating right now, I'd be like, oh, like,
how did that happen? Oh well, he like liked a
ton of my stories on Instagram.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
R Like, okay, all the things they just didn't happen
because like Instagram wasn't around.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Maybe maybe zombieing aka returning from the dead after ghosting.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I think people have been doing that for years.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Look, yeah, back of the day, you probably saw them
at the club. Yet oh man, I see this. Whatever
what's up?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
That's that's an opportunity though, that's just because you're there.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
What about this one? Getting swipe fatigue from hinge and tender? Unfortunately,
I've never been on that, so I don't know is
anyone relate to that. Have you ever been on hinde
or Tinder?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Pinton, I'm banned from Tinder?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You're banned from Tinder? Why?
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Well, because when I was single and I was like
kind of in my sugar baby pace. I had set
my age limit to like old men, and they caught me.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
For real, that's what you're into, that's what you're into.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Well, no, but if you're tender, if you're the apt,
why can't you let people unless they were all were you? Like, I,
hey pay me and I'll go out to dinner with
the O.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
No.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Like it was literally like it would be my tender
profile if it was set to my writing age range.
But they blocked me, literally like I can't make a
tender account.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
That's wild.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
It's a jedgy if that's what?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
If you really did level.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Getting dating advice from TikTok, benching potential romantic options, I
don't know what that means. Benching getting into situationships because
you're afraid of commitment. These are all things that apparently
were not available twenty years ago or unthinkable. The article
says unthinkable, and you're right, Cayle. A lot of this
is technology that wasn't around. That's why it was unthinkable.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Because you declare your singleness or if you're wrapped up
now situationship, that's just whatever's happening.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
What do you think dating was better back then? Or now.
I don't know, said, do you think just take a guest.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Well, judging by all those things, if they didn't exist
or they weren't around, then I would sit back then.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
You think back then, that's funny because I was saying
because you know, I was dating back then. Actually I
was married. But I mean, like that whole era, like now,
I think it'd be so much fun to date, be
so much. It'd be so much fun to be on
cinder and swipe and slipe, and I would love to
experience tender fatigue.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
I think, I bet you. I feel like that might
be a man thing because it's like you, I mean,
I can see why you would say that, right, but
like I feel like dating like right now would be
the worst. Like yeah, I think I'm like, oh my gosh,
thank you God. I'm so glad that I have a boyfriend,
like a long term boyfriend, and I don't have to
be out here in these streets.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Because it's rough.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yeah, hearing a couple of my friends like you just
had dinner like the other night and hearing their stories.
I looked at one of my other friends and I'm like,
I'm so glad I'm married, Like I would not enjoy
dating right now. There's just like too many dating scams
and too many heirdos.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, ain't too much responsibility. Got a text all the time?
I mean I used to like going on dates and
you don't talk to them until the next date. You
get to wonder if they like you. You don't have
the constant flow of communication.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Isn't together in life like going somewhere from point A
to point B without being on the phone or something
like back in the day, that's how it was, right.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
It just didn't like I'll meet you, you know, next
Thursday at the pool place, and then you don't talk
at all, You just meet them.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
I don't even know how I got to text. I
don't know how it got around anywhere without GPS maps.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Well, years ago, where you know, you were a bubble guy,
you went where you knew.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah, anyway, that was just a little thing. The little
article I thought was interesting that they say these current
dating trends were unthinkable twenty years ago. Hello, good morning,
John Jay Rich can help you.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Yes, are you guys still doing the teacher scandal?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Is it sexual? Yes?
Speaker 6 (04:38):
And no?
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Is it with a minor?
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Yes? Well it was me what I didn't. It didn't, Yeah,
but it didn't pass. It didn't go to anything sexual,
but it may have, and that my teacher got in
trouble for you, so.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
You may do.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Anyways, basically an A grade. I had a math teacher
and she would always get in trouble for like wearing
like revealing clothes. Well, I was on her on her
computer and I was like looking, I was trying to
kind of trade, you know. I was kind of a
trouble student. I was trying to change my grades because
she would sit outside of the computer classroom. Anyways, I
(05:20):
seemed that she had like looking up breast implants, and
so she came back and she caught me on a
computer and I couldn't exit out of her little search tab.
So anyways, after class, he told me to come see
her after school, and so after school we went and
she took me to Sweet Tomatoes, which was weird, and
(05:42):
so we were eating. She she invited me to lunch,
and so we were going and we went and when
we came back, the principal seeing her and me getting
out of the car, and she got in a lot
of trouble for it, and so she like disappeared for
a few days, and then she came back and they
asked me, like what happens and they're like.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Oh you.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
I was like, oh, we want to have lunch. And
she's like He's like, did you get like a good
grade or something? And I'm like, well, I don't, like,
you know, I didn't know what to say. Anyways, he's like,
you can't be doing that. And she's in a lot
of trouble. It's not your fault. And so anyways, after
that happened, she came back. She was my teacher, and
(06:27):
she wrote in sharpie. She gave me her phone number
with a little heart, but she said she wouldn't sign
it until the very last day of school, and I
had to stay after for her to sign it. And
I did, and she gave me her phone number, but
I never called.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Good move, good move, Thanks for calling man. Actually, good morning,
you're on the air.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
Good Hi, good morning.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
What's up?
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Okay, So I heard on the podcast that Peyton is
trying to convert her boyfriend into a believer, and I
just wanted to share a couple ideas that I have
to help her.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Please give them to me, all of them. I'm taking notes.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Okay, So I know you were talking about like Justin
Bieber's Believe album, which is absolutely amazing album. Like it's like,
like you said, it's one of the best albums. But
I do have to like not completely agree with Kadeem
about his All That Matter song, because that is the
song that like completely made me like fall in love
with Justin Bieber because he kind of transitioned him from
(07:26):
like his like kind of teenage to like more grown sounds.
But his Purpose Album, I feel like, was like, okay,
you can sell him as an R and B artist
off of his Purpose Album.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Okay, okay, And I really like the Purpose Album. I
feel like the Purpose Album like is like a bunch
of like Debbie Downers to me, though, as good as
it is, I feel like this album's so.
Speaker 6 (07:49):
Sad it is. But but if you want to really
sell him as an R and B artist, like the
four songs that I feel like like most of the
I remember when the album came that Okay, like all
the guys, my cousins, my brothers, they're all like rap
artists and all this stuff, but they even heard that
album was like okay, no, this is like if they
can turn into believers because of this album, like you can,
(08:12):
you can really help Kathie.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
That's okay.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
So I feel like the four songs that from that
album that you have to really focus on are the
I'll show you because if the beat is like really smooth,
like you know. Yeah, and then he has a song
I know you mentioned his song from Believe or one
of his songs from Believe album that has big Sean
has another one yeah called no Pressure. Yeah, that's a
(08:37):
really good one. And the one that's like our whole
family favorite even my kids love it is his song
with Travis Scott was it No Sense? And then he
has a song with nas on there. I can't remember
the name of the song. I think it's called we
Are or something like that. But I think if you
focus on those four songs, you can really like really
(09:00):
sell it R and B. And I think that that
might help you convert Coadem because we need some more
believers around here.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Like, yeah, it is such good advice. Yeah, And I
love the Purpose album and I really love the Journals
album too, Like he has a feature with little lay
on there like, so I I appreciate I took the
notes on all the songs that you have actually I'm
gonna play it for him today. I'm gonna I'm gonna
be like Ashley said, you better listen to this.
Speaker 6 (09:25):
You gotta listen to it. And we still listen to
this to ten years later and it's still we just
love that album. Like we my whole family, my kids, everyone,
my husband. It's you. You can do this.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
I believe in you.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
Paid you can do this all right, absolutely, you guys
have a great day.
Speaker 7 (09:43):
Bye, Hello, good morning, good morning. Hi, how are you good?
I was calling because I was driving and I couldn't
get your guys' number in time. But I have a
school scandal.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Oh that a good one.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
So I went to Gladystone High School and my junior
year of high school, I believe it was Oregon City
came down. It was their football players and they we
had a large wooden carved gladiator on campus and they
cut it down to nothing, like they shredded the thing basically.
(10:26):
And then I think it was they took the head
and on the base they wrote like OC And on
the brick of our building they wrote a bunch of
like graffiti. And it was the football players because we
had a rival game coming up and a bunch of them,
got like misdemeanor charges pressed against them.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Wow.
Speaker 7 (10:47):
Yeah, this is probably two thousand and two.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Well, thank you so much for listening, Thanks for calling
in scandal, No problem, OK, yeah
There's a website called Bold you guys ever heard of Bold?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:03):
No, I'd go there. Sometimes they find cool articles and stuff,
like there's an article on that right now called these
current dating trends were unthinkable twenty years ago, And I
was like, well, that's interesting, let's get into it.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Like finding your significant other online.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Let's see like ghosting. Ghosting is number one, Like ghosting
instead of breaking up like an adult, Like that was
unthinkable twenty years ago.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
That's true. You had to come up with the reason
why you didn't want to go out. In fact, we
would have discussions like, well, you don't want to go
out with you know whatever, the white pants lady. But
you've got to come up with the reason to contact
them and say why you don't want to go out again.
You would never just disappear.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Oh like this, This one number ten on the list
is orbiting. Do you guys know what orbiting is? No? No,
Orbiting is watching all your stories but never actually texting
you back. Right, you've seen that you've heard of? That
makes sense. We all have friends that do that, probably,
right Peyton, Yeah, sure, you watch the stories of a
comment never do anything, uh bread crumbing? Do you guys,
remember what bread crumbing.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Is like leading someone on?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Yeah, bread crumbing. He keeps someone hooked without committing twenty
years ago. That never happened. Liking someone's Instagram story as
a way of flirting. I get that.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Yeah, that's a thing. Like, especially with my single friends
that are dating right now, I'd be like, oh, like,
how did that happen? Oh well, he like liked a
ton of my stories on Instagram.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
R Like, okay, all the things they just didn't happen
because like Instagram wasn't around.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Maybe maybe zombieing aka returning from the dead after ghosting.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I think people have been doing that for years.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Look, yeah, back of the day, you probably saw them
at the club. Yet oh man, I see this. Whatever
what's up?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
That's that's an opportunity though, that's just because you're there.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
What about this one? Getting swipe fatigue from hinge and tender? Unfortunately,
I've never been on that, so I don't know is
anyone relate to that. Have you ever been on hinde
or Tinder?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Pinton, I'm banned from Tinder?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You're banned from Tinder? Why?
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Well, because when I was single and I was like
kind of in my sugar baby pace. I had set
my age limit to like old men, and they caught me.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
For real, that's what you're into, that's what you're into.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Well, no, but if you're tender, if you're the apt,
why can't you let people unless they were all were you? Like, I,
hey pay me and I'll go out to dinner with
the O.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
No.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Like it was literally like it would be my tender
profile if it was set to my writing age range.
But they blocked me, literally like I can't make a
tender account.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
That's wild.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
It's a jedgy if that's what?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
If you really did level.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Getting dating advice from TikTok, benching potential romantic options, I
don't know what that means. Benching getting into situationships because
you're afraid of commitment. These are all things that apparently
were not available twenty years ago or unthinkable. The article
says unthinkable, and you're right, Cayle. A lot of this
is technology that wasn't around. That's why it was unthinkable.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Because you declare your singleness or if you're wrapped up
now situationship, that's just whatever's happening.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
What do you think dating was better back then? Or now.
I don't know, said, do you think just take a guest.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Well, judging by all those things, if they didn't exist
or they weren't around, then I would sit back then.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
You think back then, that's funny because I was saying
because you know, I was dating back then. Actually I
was married. But I mean, like that whole era, like now,
I think it'd be so much fun to date, be
so much. It'd be so much fun to be on
cinder and swipe and slipe, and I would love to
experience tender fatigue.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
I think, I bet you. I feel like that might
be a man thing because it's like you, I mean,
I can see why you would say that, right, but
like I feel like dating like right now would be
the worst. Like yeah, I think I'm like, oh my gosh,
thank you God. I'm so glad that I have a boyfriend,
like a long term boyfriend, and I don't have to
be out here in these streets.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Because it's rough.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yeah, hearing a couple of my friends like you just
had dinner like the other night and hearing their stories.
I looked at one of my other friends and I'm like,
I'm so glad I'm married, Like I would not enjoy
dating right now. There's just like too many dating scams
and too many heirdos.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, ain't too much responsibility. Got a text all the time?
I mean I used to like going on dates and
you don't talk to them until the next date. You
get to wonder if they like you. You don't have
the constant flow of communication.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Isn't together in life like going somewhere from point A
to point B without being on the phone or something
like back in the day, that's how it was, right.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
It just didn't like I'll meet you, you know, next
Thursday at the pool place, and then you don't talk
at all, You just meet them.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
I don't even know how I got to text. I
don't know how it got around anywhere without GPS maps.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Well, years ago, where you know, you were a bubble guy,
you went where you knew.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah, anyway, that was just a little thing. The little
article I thought was interesting that they say these current
dating trends were unthinkable twenty years ago. Hello, good morning,
John Jay Rich can help you.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Yes, are you guys still doing the teacher scandal?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Is it sexual? Yes?
Speaker 6 (04:38):
And no?
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Is it with a minor?
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Yes? Well it was me what I didn't. It didn't, Yeah,
but it didn't pass. It didn't go to anything sexual,
but it may have, and that my teacher got in
trouble for you, so.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
You may do.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Anyways, basically an A grade. I had a math teacher
and she would always get in trouble for like wearing
like revealing clothes. Well, I was on her on her
computer and I was like looking, I was trying to
kind of trade, you know. I was kind of a
trouble student. I was trying to change my grades because
she would sit outside of the computer classroom. Anyways, I
(05:20):
seemed that she had like looking up breast implants, and
so she came back and she caught me on a
computer and I couldn't exit out of her little search tab.
So anyways, after class, he told me to come see
her after school, and so after school we went and
she took me to Sweet Tomatoes, which was weird, and
(05:42):
so we were eating. She she invited me to lunch,
and so we were going and we went and when
we came back, the principal seeing her and me getting
out of the car, and she got in a lot
of trouble for it, and so she like disappeared for
a few days, and then she came back and they
asked me, like what happens and they're like.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Oh you.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
I was like, oh, we want to have lunch. And
she's like He's like, did you get like a good
grade or something? And I'm like, well, I don't, like,
you know, I didn't know what to say. Anyways, he's like,
you can't be doing that. And she's in a lot
of trouble. It's not your fault. And so anyways, after
that happened, she came back. She was my teacher, and
(06:27):
she wrote in sharpie. She gave me her phone number
with a little heart, but she said she wouldn't sign
it until the very last day of school, and I
had to stay after for her to sign it. And
I did, and she gave me her phone number, but
I never called.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Good move, good move, Thanks for calling man. Actually, good morning,
you're on the air.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
Good Hi, good morning.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
What's up?
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Okay, So I heard on the podcast that Peyton is
trying to convert her boyfriend into a believer, and I
just wanted to share a couple ideas that I have
to help her.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Please give them to me, all of them. I'm taking notes.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Okay, So I know you were talking about like Justin
Bieber's Believe album, which is absolutely amazing album. Like it's like,
like you said, it's one of the best albums. But
I do have to like not completely agree with Kadeem
about his All That Matter song, because that is the
song that like completely made me like fall in love
with Justin Bieber because he kind of transitioned him from
(07:26):
like his like kind of teenage to like more grown sounds.
But his Purpose Album, I feel like, was like, okay,
you can sell him as an R and B artist
off of his Purpose Album.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Okay, okay, And I really like the Purpose Album. I
feel like the Purpose Album like is like a bunch
of like Debbie Downers to me, though, as good as
it is, I feel like this album's so.
Speaker 6 (07:49):
Sad it is. But but if you want to really
sell him as an R and B artist, like the
four songs that I feel like like most of the
I remember when the album came that Okay, like all
the guys, my cousins, my brothers, they're all like rap
artists and all this stuff, but they even heard that
album was like okay, no, this is like if they
can turn into believers because of this album, like you can,
(08:12):
you can really help Kathie.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
That's okay.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
So I feel like the four songs that from that
album that you have to really focus on are the
I'll show you because if the beat is like really smooth,
like you know. Yeah, and then he has a song
I know you mentioned his song from Believe or one
of his songs from Believe album that has big Sean
has another one yeah called no Pressure. Yeah, that's a
(08:37):
really good one. And the one that's like our whole
family favorite even my kids love it is his song
with Travis Scott was it No Sense? And then he
has a song with nas on there. I can't remember
the name of the song. I think it's called we
Are or something like that. But I think if you
focus on those four songs, you can really like really
(09:00):
sell it R and B. And I think that that
might help you convert Coadem because we need some more
believers around here.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Like, yeah, it is such good advice. Yeah, And I
love the Purpose album and I really love the Journals
album too, Like he has a feature with little lay
on there like, so I I appreciate I took the
notes on all the songs that you have actually I'm
gonna play it for him today. I'm gonna I'm gonna
be like Ashley said, you better listen to this.
Speaker 6 (09:25):
You gotta listen to it. And we still listen to
this to ten years later and it's still we just
love that album. Like we my whole family, my kids, everyone,
my husband. It's you. You can do this.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
I believe in you.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
Paid you can do this all right, absolutely, you guys
have a great day.
Speaker 7 (09:43):
Bye, Hello, good morning, good morning. Hi, how are you good?
I was calling because I was driving and I couldn't
get your guys' number in time. But I have a
school scandal.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Oh that a good one.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
So I went to Gladystone High School and my junior
year of high school, I believe it was Oregon City
came down. It was their football players and they we
had a large wooden carved gladiator on campus and they
cut it down to nothing, like they shredded the thing basically.
(10:26):
And then I think it was they took the head
and on the base they wrote like OC And on
the brick of our building they wrote a bunch of
like graffiti. And it was the football players because we
had a rival game coming up and a bunch of them,
got like misdemeanor charges pressed against them.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Wow.
Speaker 7 (10:47):
Yeah, this is probably two thousand and two.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Well, thank you so much for listening, Thanks for calling
in scandal, No problem, OK, yeah
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!