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April 21, 2025 34 mins
How to tell co-workers this meeting could have been an email: 
  1. “Let's aim to save more time in future discussions by emailing instead”
  2. “Let's make sure our next meeting only covers things that need to be discussed”
  3. “How about we circle back via email next time?”
  4. “This seemed like something we could have worked through on a quick email thread”

How do you get more done during the week: don't save yourself for the weekend, do extracurricular things during the week.

Boomer dating norms this generation wouldn't understand: 
  1. Calling on the landline
  2. Waiting for the third date to show serious interest
  3. Dressing up for even the most casual date
  4. Having to go through the parents first
  5. The strict “no kissing on the first date” policy
  6. Making things “official” before exclusivity was assumed
  7. Consulting “expert” columns and agony aunts
  8. Strict curfews and scheduling
Second Date Update: Indy and Scott actually go on two dates. Why is he ghosting? Was she too needy?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
It's Monday morning.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
We're back. What's up?

Speaker 3 (00:04):
Hello?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
What's going on? Corey?

Speaker 3 (00:07):
My husband is so adorable?

Speaker 2 (00:09):
Well, what do you do now?

Speaker 3 (00:11):
He got me an Easter basket? Oh yay, it was
so cute. Not only did you give me an Easter basket,
he got my car washed. He gassed it up.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
This guy.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
I mean, I don't. I'm like, what am I supposed
to do?

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Did you do anything for him on Easter?

Speaker 4 (00:31):
No?

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Your boy might have given him the heads up, FYI.
After the discussion a couple of weeks ago, I texted him.
I told him, I said, your lady wants an Easter basket.

Speaker 1 (00:39):
Just be aware you're taking credit for that. Nope, not
taking credit for anything.

Speaker 5 (00:43):
He didn't have to do it, dude, I got snacks
galore because of that Easter basket.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
I might share with you since you told me that.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
I wasn't trying to take any credit, although it sounded
like it.

Speaker 6 (00:55):
Just now. Sorry.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
No, it was a great weekend.

Speaker 5 (00:57):
We went to Bodega Bay had some oils. Just you know,
it's one of those things where living in the Bay Area,
you can.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Hit the water you can hit the beach, you can do.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
Best, so many things. I was on notice for the
Easter egg hunt yesterday.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
Oh yeah, what does that mean?

Speaker 1 (01:16):
Found out from the misses that so at our house
the east. So the Easter bunny has different jobs at
different people's houses. Some houses the Easter bunny comes in
and does the whole thing, hides all the Easter eggs,
brings the baskets whatever. At our house, the Easter Bunny's
only job is to bring a basket.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
That's it.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
So my next door neighbor and I my buddy Ron,
we are in charge of hiding the Easter eggs. Okay,
apparently we're too good at it. And the kids and
my daughter is ten and her little buddy will is eight,
and well they only found ninety eight percent of the
eggs last year, and one of the plastic eggs got

(01:52):
found by a friend like almost a year later.

Speaker 5 (01:54):
So you use plastic, you don't do real egg Yeah, no,
we don't do really, because the Easter Bundy at my
house would do real if you didn't find it in Florida.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Yeah, at any rate, I was put on notice. We're
supposed to remember the number of eggs that we have,
which we did, and then somehow they want us to
be able to articulate every single place that we hid
one so that we can find it in case the kids.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
Don't find it.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
I mean, you gotta write that down, to which I said,
you know what, you guys got to be better. Oh really,
So that's not my job. My job is to hide them.
It's not to find that.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
That's on you.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
I'm not going to keep track of where I put
forty eggs. That's too many eggs. That's too many eggs.
So they got thirty nine out of the forty, and
then one of us hid one so well that I
was like, oh great, I looked at ronigo. We're going
to lose our gig.

Speaker 4 (02:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:48):
The wives were convinced we did it on purpose so
we wouldn't have to do it the following year, and
I was like, no, this is my joy.

Speaker 5 (02:53):
I've heard that though, that if you do something terribly
on purpose.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
Oh that's true, and I'll ask you to do it again.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah, throw your wife's favorite bron the dryer one time.
Twenty sixteen. Don't ask me questions.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
At any rate.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
What I wanted to do was take the last egg
and put it in my pocket and then when it
all wrapped up, go oh and pull it out and
just throw it over the fence. That's what I wanted
to do, because those are the dads that make memories.

Speaker 3 (03:18):
That's okay.

Speaker 5 (03:20):
That's one of those things where you were like, this
is funny and creative, and other people are like.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
What do you do? But my daughter would never forget it, right,
I'll never forget.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
There's one year my dad took it, heack out of
his pocket and threw it over to the neighbor's fence.
That's been hilarious. Anyway, I'm going too long, but so
they it was a small green egg underneath a small
green patch of grass, and I walked by it. I went, oh,
I just saw it, and then everybody panicked. Then we
found it. So everything's fine, okay, gig secured for next year. Anyway,

(03:52):
Happy Easter everyone. That was entirely too long. We have
a bunch of stuff coming up. You want to take
the family to the California to me of Sciences. We're
going to lace you up with a four pack of
tickets with the trivia game this morning at eight five.
Stay with more variety from the two thousands, The nineties
and today at Star one, one three, it's Marcus and Corey.
We just read the most ridiculous thing. This was supposed

(04:13):
to be helpful. Use these phrases to professionally say.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
This meeting could have been an email.

Speaker 3 (04:18):
I mean, how many times do you feel that though?

Speaker 6 (04:20):
Well?

Speaker 2 (04:20):
Every time?

Speaker 1 (04:21):
Yeah, But I read these and I go, there's nothing
professional about any of these suggestions. Maybe one of these,
one of them would actually not offend the person who
called the meeting, because I'm assuming that you're you're writing
this in an email to whoever you just had your
meeting with. Yeah, these are your sentiments on said meeting,
says here. In order to remain professional, you're supposed to

(04:42):
write something like, Hey, let's aim to save more time
in the future with discussions by emailing instead.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
Would that pretty direct?

Speaker 1 (04:50):
Can you imagine our market president calls a meeting and
we all clamber in there, and then after the fact,
I send an email that says, Hey, here's another let's
make sure our next meeting only covers things that need
to be discovered genuine imagine.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
No, that's shocking. That's shocking to me that you can't
say that. You can't say that to me because it
basically you're insinuating that this.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Was a gigantic waste of you gigantically wasted my time. Yes,
maybe if you're everybody's boss, you can get away with this.
I'll give you my favorite. I'd love to understand what
part of this conversation couldn't have been in writing.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
Who has the kahones to do this? I mean that
takes some serious grit. Should I get to the helpful one? Yeah,
there's one helpful one here?

Speaker 1 (05:40):
The rest of the hod garbage, this one would work.
Does anyone object if we handle this through email?

Speaker 3 (05:46):
That's okay, that's more genshole.

Speaker 2 (05:48):
I can deal with that one.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
That one's not as bad the other. This is just.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Rude as opposed to it seems we're on the same page.
Let's email to make sure we're not wasting any one time.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
Again, you're just insulting the person who held the meeting.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
You could throw that one out there before you have
the meeting, but after here's another one. Everyone, I think
we should revisit the frequency of these meetings.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
That's not bad.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
It's not bad. It doesn't really mean anything.

Speaker 5 (06:19):
I mean, it's saying, hey, we don't need to have
these meetings as often as we are.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
And my favorite wrap up email.

Speaker 1 (06:25):
And again these are phrases to quote professionally say this
meeting could have been an email.

Speaker 2 (06:30):
It's my favorite one.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Thank you for your time everyone, But let's discuss when
a meeting is and isn't wrat I mean, I don't
know if i'd put those in an email. I would
certainly put them on a coffee cup or a T shirt. Yes, exactly.

Speaker 3 (06:45):
I don't know if you can say any of these
things to your higher ups without offending them, than you
are so terrible.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
They have made my morning. Yes, does anybody have a
good one? A phrase that says this meeting could have
been an email? Who's got a good one? Hit us
with a talkback if you don't mind. It's the little
red microphone on the iHeartRadio app. You've got thirty seconds
to leave us a message.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
If you're streaming Star one on one three right now.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties and today
it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
It's Monday morning. I think I might have found a
way to make it a great week. Oh I like
that And being slightly sarcastic in that this study is
interesting to me. It makes one hundred percent of sense.
But there's one big thing I don't agree with, So
let me REDI you the headline first. Okay, make your
weekdays more fulfilling to boost your happiness. Okay, Mental health

(07:29):
experts say, in order to be happier, just with life
in general, don't just wait for the weekend to do
your things, it says right here. While it may be
tempting to just collapse on the couch every night, they
say you should push through and do stuff during the week.

Speaker 3 (07:45):
During the week. It doesn't mean you have to stay
out later or anything.

Speaker 5 (07:48):
No, just means you can enjoy activities during the week.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
Sprinkle some in during the week, not just the weekends.
Even if you feel like you're tired you just want
to break. Pushing yourself to do something can also be energizing. Okay,
Involve your partner, Invite your friends, Make it a shared
activity midweek, make it a social activity, taking a class, pickleball,
a book club, put it on the calendar, do it regularly.

Speaker 3 (08:15):
I'm already sleepy.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
Here's my only issue is who the hell's got time?

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (08:20):
No kidding.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
Now the argument can be made. You can always carve
out time if you prioritize it. This is what they
say about working out Corey. Oh yeah, oh that working
out thing.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
Yeah, that's that's a thing.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
So if you truly just go home and crash and
binge watch.

Speaker 3 (08:36):
Why do I feel like you're directing this?

Speaker 1 (08:38):
No mean, I'm sort of half defending you. I'm sort
of half because you know me, I love to jam
my week with stuff. Yeah, it brings me joy. Yeah,
now I feel validated. But also I'm kind of team
Corey in that Corey leaves it out all on the
field when she comes to work.

Speaker 3 (08:53):
Oh thank you.

Speaker 2 (08:54):
I do genuinely believe that. And so like getting.

Speaker 1 (08:57):
Home, the number one thing I can imagine is like,
I'm wiped. I'm just gonna I need to watch what's
that show? You like?

Speaker 3 (09:03):
Bodycam?

Speaker 2 (09:06):
I'm gonna watch body Camp for the rest of forever.

Speaker 5 (09:08):
I watched so much Bodycam yesterday weekend.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
I thought you guys went on a road trip.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
Did wait one day where we ventured and then one day.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Where we they went to y'all went to Bodega Bay
or no day trip?

Speaker 2 (09:25):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (09:26):
I thought maybe you had an overnight and then you
were gonna tell me you were in the airbnb watching bodycam.
And that's the thing that I don't agree with is,
like I know, especially here, it's so hard to make
enough money to just even exist.

Speaker 2 (09:40):
You have to have your regular job.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
Maybe you got your side hustle, you've got the kids,
you've got the house stuff, you've got other ancillary things, activities,
whatever else. Carve some time out for yourself if you can.
If you can, that's that's the big pressure. If you
don't push it all off to the weekend mental health expert.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
Here we are boosting happiness all right.

Speaker 1 (09:59):
Back to body cam cam Star one O one three,
Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey Monday.

Speaker 2 (10:05):
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trending on Star one O one three.

Speaker 3 (10:11):
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day and everything people are talking about today.

Speaker 4 (10:18):
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I don't like starting with sad news, but Pope Francis
has passed away at the age.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
Of eighty eight. His last public appearance was for the
Easter Sunday blessing yesterday, and he died this morning. The
thoughts are he had a stroke.

Speaker 2 (10:43):
Yes, he has.

Speaker 3 (10:44):
Been the pope since twenty thirteen, and a lot of
people liked him.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
My dad adored him, and I appreciate the fact first Latino,
I Medicano Pope also all about the peeple, all about
taking care of the poor, all about inclusion, all about
trying to bridge the gap between the Church and things
that maybe kind of went against.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
The core of what Catholics were led to believe. Just
a good dude.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah, and I also learned today that the word for
pope in Latin is you know, it's pontiff, and that
is it literally means bridge, and he was the epitome
of that.

Speaker 3 (11:28):
That makes sense.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yeah, so really bummed out. I'm glad now my dad
will finally have a chance to meet him. They can hang,
they can hang, I'm sure they are.

Speaker 5 (11:38):
This is the weirdest celebrity couple I've ever heard of.
Elizabeth Hurley and Billy Ray Cyrus.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
Yeah, trying to figure that out.

Speaker 3 (11:45):
I thought it was flavor flav and Reggie Nilssen.

Speaker 5 (11:49):
No, this this tops at Elizabeth Hurley and Billy Ray Cyrus.
They posted a joint Easter photo where Cyrus is kissing
her on the cheek.

Speaker 3 (11:58):
It's captioned Happy East with a heart emoji. Hurley's son
Damien showed support, commenting a heart emoji as well as
a parting face emoji, and they were both dressed casually,
with Hurley rocking and blue flannel jeans and a straw hat.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
You know what?

Speaker 2 (12:15):
Good for them?

Speaker 3 (12:17):
Sure? I don't don't get it.

Speaker 2 (12:21):
What's happening to? Let me ask you? Why not?

Speaker 3 (12:23):
It doesn't bother me.

Speaker 5 (12:25):
I mean, everybody's got to find their person, right, it's
just weird.

Speaker 2 (12:29):
What's weird about it?

Speaker 6 (12:30):
Though?

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Do we know? Because I think it's weird too, And
I can't figure out.

Speaker 5 (12:33):
Why because she's British and he's Billy Ray Ciris.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
I mean that's all I got.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
Good enough.

Speaker 5 (12:42):
Craft Eines Mac and Cheese has turned up the heat
just in time for summer. They're gonna do a smoky
barbecue flavor. It blends that smoky and sweet barbecue spices
with the cheesy buttery taste of.

Speaker 3 (12:54):
Kraft mac and cheese. Mm hm, you can get that
through midsummer. That sounds delightful to me.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
Where do I buy this?

Speaker 3 (13:02):
Regular stores?

Speaker 2 (13:03):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (13:04):
Where you get your craft?

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Just basically anywhere mac and cheese okay? Okay, So I
got more information on the Goodwill closures. They're closing eleven
Bay area stores. Goodwill San Francisco Bay merged with Goodwill
of Central and Northern Arizona, so this is a within
Goodwill merger. But again, eleven locations are closing, including my

(13:26):
drop off point in Daily City.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
That sucks.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
And there were some you know, good good people up there.
They I hope they found them other gigs, because man,
those guys would take anything, and I genuinely appreciated it. Okay,
we'll go to sports really quick. The Warriors won their
first game in the playoffs in Houston last night, ninety
five to eighty five. I had a really good time
explaining the playoff brackets to my ten year old Okay,

(13:50):
she was genuinely interested. She was also we were all
impressed with Uncle Steph. Steph Curry absolutely unconscious. He was
literally throwing the ball up from all parts of the
court and making it, just nailing it, like literally. So
Jimmy Butler is the other big superstar on the team.
He's on the bench, his mouth just wide open, like
I can't believe this is happening.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
That's awesome.

Speaker 2 (14:11):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
He calls Steph Curry, Batman, calls himself Robin, and they're
gonna take us all the way to the ship.

Speaker 2 (14:17):
I just jinxed it. Whoops, don't do that.

Speaker 1 (14:20):
Game two of this series tomorrow night in Houston, six
thirty tip off, Go Dubs. The Giants ended a long
road trip last night with a heartbreaker, gave up five
runs in the ninth inning against the Angels. They're starting
a seven game homestand tonight against Milwaukee six forty five.
First pitch at Oracle Park. Almost he got.

Speaker 2 (14:38):
Jess, what's trending every weekday morning on the fifties. That's
at six fifty seven am.

Speaker 3 (14:43):
And connect now with the Marcus and Corey socials and blogs.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
That's at How did I forget to mention the picture
that is melting the internet right now? Everyone go to
Marcus and Corey on Instagram. Please give it a follow.
A picture of Corey on the road in Bodega, bas
She and her husband and Jeff went just for a
day trip and took the baby Corgy Ryland.

Speaker 3 (15:05):
We're trying to socialize her.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
There is a mommy and me photo that is going
to melt your face. Well, variety from the two thousands,
the nineties, and today. It's a star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey doing second date update again. It's
back from the weekend.

Speaker 3 (15:20):
We just want to help. That's what we're here for.

Speaker 5 (15:22):
You know, we haven't been on the dating scene in forever,
so we're the perfect people to help you with your love.

Speaker 1 (15:27):
Life obvious experts. Indy is on the phone contemplating her
life decision to call in the show today.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
Hello Indy, how are you?

Speaker 4 (15:36):
I'm good?

Speaker 1 (15:36):
How are you guys?

Speaker 2 (15:37):
That is a very interesting name. Is that short for Indiana?

Speaker 3 (15:40):
Uh No, it's just Indy, just Indy.

Speaker 1 (15:43):
Just all I think about is what's that life? We
named the dog Indiana.

Speaker 3 (15:46):
From Come on down to somebody? Is that your best
Soohn Connery?

Speaker 1 (15:51):
Yes, actually it was, Thank you. So anyway, Indy, let's
talk about Scott. How did you guys meet or what's
your story?

Speaker 4 (16:00):
Well, you know, Scott and I we we've been on
two dates pretty quickly, Okay. It kind of honestly just
felt like very natural, and like, you know, we were
already dating. You know, there was a lot of effort
put in on my end, which you know, no problem.
I'm doing a lot of you know, girlfriend kind of things.

(16:21):
And I would check in on him, listen to him
when he needed someone to listen. I supported him, you know,
I took care of him what any woman should do.
I even made his favorite meal and dropped it off
to him one day. And I don't know how we
got like to that level and things were going so
well and then all of a sudden, like she just
dropped off the face of the earth.

Speaker 3 (16:43):
He sounds very thoughtful.

Speaker 4 (16:44):
Yeah, I like someone I'm thoughtful.

Speaker 3 (16:48):
Okay, here's what I'm thinking, please, Okay. So he's at
an old school arcade, right.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
Okay, and he went high scores in Alameda, Yes, thank you.

Speaker 5 (16:58):
He wins the high score in a game and the
game is actually secretly a simulation test.

Speaker 2 (17:04):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (17:04):
And so he's recruited by an alien defense force to
fight in an interstellar war.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
You really went all in on this one, Yeah, I
did Is there a parallel dimension involved?

Speaker 3 (17:16):
No, okay, just headed to space.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
Is he okay?

Speaker 3 (17:21):
Sure he's fighting in the war.

Speaker 4 (17:24):
I feel like that's something my mom would believe.

Speaker 3 (17:26):
But she just called me her mom.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
I'll tell you what. Why don't we just call him
make sure he's still with us?

Speaker 3 (17:35):
Yeah, hopefully he's got a signal.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
Indy, can you hang on the line absolutely, Star one
on one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing second date update.
We've got Indy on the phone. She was telling us
about Scott. Yes, this feels a little fast tracked to me.
I'm not gonna lie, but she seems also very thoughtful.
You guys have actually been on two dates, Is that right, Indy? Yeah,
she's doing a lot of she's checking in on him,

(17:57):
she's bringing him food, and he has disappeared like gone, gone,
Let's see what's up, you know the drill.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
Go ahead and mute your phone. We're gonna call him
and see what the deal is. Okay, Okay, here we.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
Go, hell I may speak with Scott. Please, Hi, Scott,
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on and three.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Good morning, Scott Hight Hight, do you listen to our
radio show.

Speaker 5 (18:37):
Yeah, are you familiar with second date update?

Speaker 6 (18:42):
I love second date update? Great?

Speaker 2 (18:44):
Yay, you want to be on second date up?

Speaker 3 (18:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (18:47):
Wait a second? Wait wait, wait, no, I know how
this goes. Wait you're calling me about Oh yes, damn? Okay,
all right, bring it on.

Speaker 2 (18:56):
Have you been on a date recently?

Speaker 3 (18:58):
Yeah, I've been on a couple, but we'd like to
talk to you about it.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
India is on the phone. Oh yes, all right, I
her words. But you have fallen off the face of
the earth after a couple of dates, So what's really
going on?

Speaker 6 (19:15):
I feel like an ass, like honestly, but like I
couldn't do it. Did she tell you went on two dates? Right?

Speaker 3 (19:21):
Right?

Speaker 6 (19:22):
Are you guys married? Uh?

Speaker 2 (19:23):
Not to each other?

Speaker 6 (19:28):
And then how many dates did you go on before
like you started acting like you were married with your partner?

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Well, we moved in together after three dates, so we're
not a good example.

Speaker 5 (19:40):
We didn't move in together until at least after a year.

Speaker 6 (19:45):
The point is is that she was acting like she
was trying to move in man after two dates, and
I just I couldn't do it. So we go on
two dates like it's nice, We get drinks, like we
have good conversation. We talk about our families, we have
things in common. She's girl, Indy. I'm sorry, but like
she just transformed like really fast, Like she went from

(20:07):
like somebody that like I was interested, into somebody who
was suddenly like taking over in a way that I
didn't understand.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
So you got spooked.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
But let's let's give Indy a chance to speak.

Speaker 6 (20:21):
Do you know that you cooked me a full meal,
like a three course meal and brought it to my house.

Speaker 4 (20:25):
I like to cook.

Speaker 1 (20:26):
I like the bake.

Speaker 3 (20:28):
I like you.

Speaker 6 (20:29):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (20:30):
So basically, Scott, you're saying she moved too fast.

Speaker 6 (20:33):
Yeah, I think a sweater in April is pretty fast.

Speaker 2 (20:36):
What does that mean you'll do that?

Speaker 6 (20:37):
Were you up all night knitting me a sweater? She
knitted a sweater and a scarf.

Speaker 2 (20:43):
I hear it here. It's just moving way too fast
for you.

Speaker 6 (20:48):
Yes, yeah, yeah, like just wanting to like just nest
or something. And I'm just like I need a little
bit of space.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
Okay, So let's distill it down. So, so Indy, can
you pump the brakes a little bit here?

Speaker 4 (21:00):
I mean, I just thought you would appreciate how thoughtful
I am, Like, if you don't get that, then you're
just not the right one for me.

Speaker 1 (21:08):
All right, hang on, I don't think this is going anywhere,
but stand by too much man, Yeah, I've been there.

Speaker 2 (21:14):
It's a lot on both sides. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (21:17):
Second Date Update seven oh five, weekday mornings. He replace
it nine oh five. You got the podcast, of course
on the iHeartRadio app. Always available, please subscribe or variety
for the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey. Monday morning,
seven twenty, Good morning morning. We just wrapped up with
a second date update. I thought we'd keep it on
the dating tip because this is a little nostalgic, and

(21:39):
I thought.

Speaker 2 (21:39):
It was cute.

Speaker 1 (21:40):
Okay, dating rules that the older generations. I'm gonna put
boomers in Gen X in here followed that people who
are dating today probably wouldn't understand or might even think
are absurd.

Speaker 3 (21:49):
Are we gen X?

Speaker 2 (21:50):
Yes? We are, okay, the.

Speaker 1 (21:52):
Coolest number one. We don't have to really stand for
that long calling on the landline. Oh yeah, nobody has
the anymore, so it doesn't matter. Another rule that we
followed back in the day, waiting for the third date
to just show serious interest. How we doing you and Jeff?
How long before you showed serious interest?

Speaker 3 (22:12):
Three weeks?

Speaker 2 (22:13):
How many dates was that? God? I don't know so much.

Speaker 1 (22:17):
All right, never mind, So my wife and I, my
wife and I knew each other before we started dating,
so this isn't an anomaly. But after date three, I
think we basically moved in together. We were cooked, or
at least I was. I wasn't taking I wasn't taking
no for an answer. Let's see dressing up for even

(22:40):
the most casual date.

Speaker 3 (22:44):
Sure, I guess it depends on what the date is, right,
because you know, if you're going to like a sporting event,
I'm probably gonna wear like the team's sure colors.

Speaker 1 (22:52):
But for us, date one was a Kelly Clarkson show
in San Jose at the Event Center, so I dressed
up for that.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
Our first date was Noodles and Company.

Speaker 2 (23:02):
Did you dress up?

Speaker 3 (23:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (23:04):
Cute?

Speaker 2 (23:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (23:05):
I mean I didn't know where we were going, but
he was testing me to see if I was high maintenance.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
Uh yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:10):
Our second date was Dashboard Confessional at Slims in San
Francisco with sushi, so I dressed up for that. And
then by our third date, we were watching football. We
were watching the Niners and Seahawks at my pad.

Speaker 3 (23:21):
Tell me your DJ without telling me your DJ.

Speaker 2 (23:24):
What does that mean?

Speaker 3 (23:25):
First two dates are at concerts?

Speaker 2 (23:27):
Well, yeah, I got free tickets.

Speaker 3 (23:28):
Uh huh, exactly.

Speaker 2 (23:31):
This one I love again.

Speaker 1 (23:32):
These are dating rules from back in the day that
the people dating today probably wouldn't get having to go
through the parents first.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
What now?

Speaker 1 (23:40):
I don't know if they mean asked to go on
an actual date or like for me, I asked her
dad's permission when I finally wanted to marry her.

Speaker 3 (23:48):
Yeah, my husband did that too.

Speaker 1 (23:50):
And it almost blew up in my face because I
called him and I said, I want to come down there.
I have something to ask you. But then we were
already living together, so I had to make an excuse
as to why I wasn't going to be home till later.
So I called her brother and I said, Hey, you
don't think your dad's gonna blow my cover? Do He's like, no,
we're good. Next thing I know, I'm halfway to San Jose.

(24:10):
I get a phone call from my now wife. Why
are you going to see my dad?

Speaker 6 (24:15):
Oh no?

Speaker 3 (24:15):
And I was like really God?

Speaker 1 (24:19):
So I made up some story about having to borrow
a karaoke machine because you know he's got like four
of them.

Speaker 2 (24:24):
Yeah, for a party we were throwing that weekend.

Speaker 3 (24:26):
Well that's a good cover.

Speaker 2 (24:27):
It was.

Speaker 1 (24:28):
It was decent, but uh, okay, what else the strict
no kissing on the first date policy?

Speaker 2 (24:34):
No, I didn't even get that one.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
Uh making things official verbally before exclusivity was assumed.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
So you want to go steady or what.

Speaker 5 (24:46):
Do you I don't remember having that conversation. I mean,
you're just together, you aren't.

Speaker 1 (24:50):
I don't remember having the conversation either, But I feel
I do feel like you had to set some boundaries
otherwise it's like this weird don't ask, don't tell policy,
Like you know what I mean? Like, if you don't
have the conversation, then can somebody get mad when somebody
else does? What steps outside of the situation?

Speaker 3 (25:10):
Why would you do that?

Speaker 1 (25:11):
I don't know's I'm just saying for some people. I mean,
I'm cool, we should move we should move on.

Speaker 3 (25:19):
To me. It's like, if you're in a relationship, you're
in a relationship, you're not dating.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
Other way are you in a relationship? If you don't
call it, if you don't say something.

Speaker 3 (25:27):
I don't think we ever had that conversation.

Speaker 2 (25:29):
Okay, that's question.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
Sure together any other weird dating rules from back in
the day that they just wouldn't get today, hit us
up with a talkback.

Speaker 5 (25:37):
The one thing I did that I was surprised I did.
I said I love you first.

Speaker 2 (25:44):
I don't remember which. I think I did too. Pretty sure,
that's on brand.

Speaker 3 (25:49):
And I know you. I mean, I feel like you
shouldn't do that as the woman.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
But that sounds so old school exactly. That's all out
the window.

Speaker 2 (26:00):
I'm for good News with Marcus and Corey.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
Good Sometimes all you need is one a good thought
to make it a great day. So let's do this.
It's good News on Star one three.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
Do it twice in morning. He's trying to start your
day off right. You know this seven.

Speaker 1 (26:19):
And I'm loving today's good news. The spout a teenager
with cerebral palsy who built a hot sauce empire because
of a school project.

Speaker 3 (26:27):
That's awesome.

Speaker 2 (26:28):
His name's Drew, he's nineteen.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
I connect to it personally because I also have cerebral
palsy and he like hits the nail right on the head.
So I'm looking at his website and it's called the
Cripplingcompany dot com. It's Crippling Hot Sauce.

Speaker 3 (26:43):
That's I don't even know what to say about.

Speaker 1 (26:45):
Well, the marketing reflects his personality, he says. Quote, our
humor is how we get through a lot of things
in life. Sure it certainly is how I got through
my cerebral palsy.

Speaker 2 (26:56):
He says.

Speaker 1 (26:56):
He believes the lighthearted tone is part of his brand's appeal,
and so that.

Speaker 3 (27:02):
Doesn't seem like an easy area to start a business
in hot sauce.

Speaker 2 (27:06):
Yeah, it worked.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
He sells over five hundred thousand units a year, earned
two million dollars in the first year in revenue.

Speaker 3 (27:13):
That's incredible.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
And this was all again born from a high school
project in his business class. His teacher called the idea
unrealistic and gave him a B minus. He took it
as a personal quest. Yeah, took his three thousand dollars
in savings and started Crippling Hot Sauce, where you can
buy flavor such as mild just for the parking. Ah,

(27:36):
the medium hot sauce, which is the one I like
the most. It's a Holapanio based it's called limping Oh.

Speaker 3 (27:42):
He leaned all the way in.

Speaker 1 (27:44):
Number three, the really really hot one called crippling agony,
and to his point, like again, when you have a
condition like I have, like you have to have humor, Yeah,
you have to the number of times I've looked at
somebody who's tried to make fun of me as a
d and looked him in the face and said, really,
why do you walk funny?

Speaker 2 (28:03):
That's all you got?

Speaker 3 (28:04):
Is that what they really said to my whole life?

Speaker 2 (28:07):
Hey, why you walk funny?

Speaker 3 (28:09):
Oh my god, that's nobody's business.

Speaker 2 (28:10):
All day, every days.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
That's nobody's business.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
That's when you're not getting picked on. So just you know,
when if you see somebody and they act differently or
have something going on, like, ask them about it, because
you know what when you when you when you ask
him about it, and then it demystifies it. If you're
a kid, maybe you're not afraid of it anymore. Maybe
you'll find out that an amazing human being there.

Speaker 5 (28:33):
But you, But you would not. Why do you walk funny?
Is not the way you want them to approach it.

Speaker 1 (28:39):
Oh that's not how you started. But I was so
used to it that I would just get into it.
Even today.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
Hey, man, are you okay.

Speaker 1 (28:46):
And I used to say, oh, it's an old sports injury,
but I just say no, I was born this way.

Speaker 2 (28:50):
This is who I am.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
I didn't even notice when I met you, right, I
thought you just had too much a dream.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
Well you did have a big lunch that day. So anyway,
Drew Davis, it's called Crippling Hot Sauce. If you're interested,
it's the Cripplingcompany dot com. His flavors look pretty good.
Nineteen year old who's built a two million dollar hot
sauce empire.

Speaker 3 (29:09):
That's amazing.

Speaker 2 (29:09):
And his whole.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
Message is like, look, I just want people to know
chase your dreams, no matter where you're starting from. Even
one hundred bucks is enough to begin. He donates five
percent of his process profits to cerebral palsy research, which.

Speaker 2 (29:22):
I think is pretty great.

Speaker 3 (29:23):
That's awesome.

Speaker 1 (29:23):
That amounted the twenty two thousand dollars last year. A
nice job, young man. More variety from the two thousands,
the nineties, and today it's Star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey time to time to play the
Bay's favorite trivia game. It's called what you Know About That?

Speaker 5 (29:35):
We've got four tickets to Dino Night, a prehistoric after
hours party on Friday May second at the California Academy
of Sciences. Break out your best dinosaur gear and stomp
over for a costume parade led by Deloresaurus, Magic shows,
hands on crafts, and more. It's all ages six to
nine thirty pm.

Speaker 2 (29:55):
I love it. Say good morning to our contestants. We
take it to Oakland and say had to Carly, good morning.
What's going on this morning?

Speaker 3 (30:01):
Oh, just enjoying this lovely foggy drive.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
Love it nice? All right, let's go to the Peninsula.
Say a to Michelle. Good morning, Michelle, good morning. What
are you doing this morning? Taking my son Nolan to school? Excellent?
What's up Nolan? Good morning, have a great day at school.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
Okay, let's get started, you guys. Game is super simple.
It's five trivia questions, fifty seconds to answer them all.
Each person gonna be asked separately with their opponent on hold.
Whoever gets the most right answers wins. If you don't
know an answer, yell out pass. We'll come back to
the question if we have time left. Okay, everybody play
along at Homer in the car. Here we go. Michelle
and Nolan go on hold in Redwood City and we

(30:40):
will start with Carly and Okin. Question number one, what
is the name of Christoph's reindeer in Frozen? Where was
Hawaiian pizza invented?

Speaker 2 (30:53):
Oh, it couldn't be Hawaii.

Speaker 1 (30:59):
Which desert is in North Africa?

Speaker 6 (31:07):
Can I come back to it?

Speaker 2 (31:08):
You could say? Past? Yeah? What is the smallest unit
of matter called.

Speaker 6 (31:14):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (31:15):
What is the center of a target called in archery?
Let's go back to the one you passed on? Which
desert is in North Africa?

Speaker 2 (31:28):
Is this a Sahara? Okay? Who doesn't answer for everything?
Could work?

Speaker 1 (31:34):
Carli goes on hold in Oakland and we pick up
Michelle in Redwood City.

Speaker 3 (31:38):
Hi, Michelle, Hi, I'm ready.

Speaker 5 (31:41):
Question number one, what is the name of Christophe's reindeer
in Frozen?

Speaker 6 (31:47):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (31:54):
Where was Hawaiian pizza invented?

Speaker 6 (32:01):
New York?

Speaker 3 (32:02):
Which desert is in North Africa?

Speaker 2 (32:06):
Sahara?

Speaker 3 (32:07):
What is the smallest unit of matter called.

Speaker 6 (32:12):
Adam?

Speaker 5 (32:12):
What is the center of a target called an archery
by going back to when you passed on? What is
the name of Christophe's reindeer in Frozen?

Speaker 2 (32:24):
Ben?

Speaker 3 (32:25):
Okay? Answer for everyday?

Speaker 6 (32:26):
All right?

Speaker 2 (32:27):
Great?

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Okay? Carly comes back in Oakland. We'll see how she
did against Michelle in Redwood City. Question number one, what
is the name of Christoph's reindeer in Frozen?

Speaker 3 (32:34):
Both Carly and Michelle said Fenn. That is correct.

Speaker 1 (32:37):
I would have had to have sung the song reindeers
are better than people, en. Don't you think that's really?

Speaker 6 (32:43):
Sorry?

Speaker 3 (32:44):
Did you want a moment?

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Where was I right there?

Speaker 1 (32:46):
Sorry?

Speaker 2 (32:46):
Where was Hawaiian pizza invented?

Speaker 5 (32:48):
Carly said Massachusetts? Michelle said New York. It's actually Canada.

Speaker 2 (32:53):
Which desert is in North Africa.

Speaker 3 (32:55):
Both Carly and Michelle said Sahara. That is correct.

Speaker 2 (32:58):
What is the smallest unit of matter.

Speaker 5 (33:00):
Called Carly said a quirk? Michelle said in adam? It
is an adam.

Speaker 1 (33:05):
And what is the center of a target called in
archery foth?

Speaker 3 (33:07):
Carly Michelle said bullseye. That is correct. Our winner is Michelle.

Speaker 1 (33:11):
Four three, Michelle, you guys are gonna go party with
the dinosaurs at the California Academy of Sciences.

Speaker 3 (33:21):
Thank you, Carl. You're getting a Marcus and Corey chip clip.

Speaker 2 (33:26):
Do you know what I'll be talking about? Play with
us again?

Speaker 3 (33:29):
Weesday mornings at eight o five as what do you
know about that?

Speaker 2 (33:32):
Un star one oh one three star one o one three.
It's Marcus and Corey about to get out of here.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
Are gonna be a fantastic day weather wise, nice bay
uh rain by the end of the week though, okay
for planning purposes. But we need it, yes, we do always.
Jillian's on the way next. She's got thousands of dollars
of what we're calling the base ten k.

Speaker 2 (33:52):
A day giveaway. Get your share, get yours, secure the
bag so the kids would.

Speaker 3 (33:58):
Say all those things.

Speaker 1 (33:59):
Ten ten your keyword. All right, keep it on and
enjoy the music. We'll be back tomorrow morning.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
Bye.
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