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May 15, 2025 6 mins
Kat from Winsted went on a great first date and is now being ghosted. She wants to find out why she's not getting a second date. 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, you guys were going to Winstead for second

(00:02):
date update today.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Oh that's fine.

Speaker 1 (00:04):
I feel like we haven't been to Winstead in a while. Yeah,
Cat is on the line. Good morning Cat.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hey, guys, has a going.

Speaker 1 (00:11):
It's going well. I hope we can help you out obviously.
You know what second date update is all about. You
went on a first date and now you're getting ghosted
and you're looking to us to get you some answers. Yes,
all right, so tell us about this great first date. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
So it was a really casual date, which I liked.
If there was no pressure or anything like that. We
just went out for like burgers and beer, you know, really.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
Casual, not to talk a lot, okay, get to know
each other.

Speaker 2 (00:38):
We were vibing. Yeah, at the end of the night,
I mean, after we went our separate ways, I you know,
just I left him a quick little voicemail just like,
thank you for a great time. I had a lot
of fun. Would really like to see you again, because
that was definitely at the end of the date. That

(00:59):
was definitely okay, yeah, okay, we'll see each other again.

Speaker 3 (01:03):
You know.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
So I thought that was the direction we were moving.
I thought we were at least going to have a
second date.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
So you felt like there was a connection. You guys talked,
and you have no idea why you're getting ghosted, right, Okay, yeah,
so we're gonna call him up. Let's just do it.
Sounds like a like super cash date, burgers and beers.
I mean, what can go wrong? We're gonna call up Phil.

Speaker 4 (01:24):
You're gonna be listening in.

Speaker 1 (01:24):
If you want to talk to him, you can. At
some point I'll bring you into the conversation.

Speaker 5 (01:28):
Okay, sounds good.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
It's gonna be interesting. Right now. I could shotgun a
beer and eat a burger. Not gonna buy a burger?

Speaker 5 (01:36):
Does sound good? Right now?

Speaker 1 (01:38):
Corona with Lime? Hi is Phil there? Yes? Phil, it's Courtney, Phil,
It's Walmart Jeff.

Speaker 5 (01:53):
Hey Phil, it's Savannah.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on
the air this morning.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
Phil, Oh Hi?

Speaker 1 (02:00):
Hey, hid all right, So we have to tell you Phil,
you're on the radio because we do something called second
Date Update. You went on a first date with somebody
who sounds fabulous, and you're ghosting her, and we need
to get some answers from you.

Speaker 4 (02:15):
Yeah, do you remember?

Speaker 1 (02:21):
Okay? Good, so then you know We're going to ask
you to be honest. You took a girl, Kat out
for burgers and beers and she said it was a
great date. She said it was fun. It was like relaxed.
You guys got along, and now you're ghosting her.

Speaker 4 (02:33):
Yeah, no, Kat, she's pretty great actually, and yeah we did.
We did have a good time. Was it was a
nice date?

Speaker 1 (02:42):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (02:43):
Cute?

Speaker 1 (02:44):
All right, so there'll be So then is there a
reason for the ghosting. If it was a nice date,
you liked her, how come you're ghosting her? What's the reason.

Speaker 4 (02:52):
It's more of a meeting. Okay, she is tnkles and
that just really weirds me out.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Okay, wait back up a second. Be beep, we're going
in reverse.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
Can you said?

Speaker 1 (03:08):
Did I hear you right? You said she has cankles
and that's why you're ghosting her.

Speaker 5 (03:14):
Yeah, please tell me this is a joke, Like, please
tell me this is a joke.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
No, oh, I just it's just something that really it's
always really weirded me out. It's not even as parents saying,
like even when I was a kid, it always just
I guess you the ebgb's or whatever, like it just
it really just.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
So a cankele if you don't know, is like a
little definition between what like the I mean, I don't know.
I mean there's no definite no ankle definition. Is that
what you're saying?

Speaker 4 (03:50):
Yeah, there's no ankle, it's just leg to foot.

Speaker 5 (03:53):
Wait a minute, Wait a minute. You're a grown man
that's scared of cankles?

Speaker 4 (03:57):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (03:57):
Are you kidding me?

Speaker 3 (03:59):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (04:00):
We asked him to be honest. He's being honest with us.
All Right, I'm going to bring Cat on, which is
just you're you're not talking about her personality or her
heart for the kind of person she is. You're yeah,
it's weird Cat. Are you there?

Speaker 3 (04:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yeah, I am?

Speaker 3 (04:14):
I am. I mean, listen, I don't necessarily love beer bellies,
but I was willing to get past fills. Catspired apparently

(04:36):
because he has a feeling about cankles.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
You don't want to go out with me again. You
can't put that aside like I put aside the beer belly.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
It's not that I hate cankles, it's just that they
really weird me out. And I don't know, it's just
a what's the mean thing? I'm sorry, I feel I do, I.

Speaker 5 (04:55):
Feel Hello, that's so it really is I'm sorry it really,
I mean, nobody's perfect. You got a beer belly, she's
got kangles, like you know, you went something, you lose
some I don't know.

Speaker 4 (05:06):
Look listen, I mean I agree, I do. I do
feel shallow, and I like I don't want to be shallow.
If there was a a psychological I could go to
to be over the weird tango thing I have, I
do it.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
I just can I just make a suggestion, just a suggestion,
please do long pants? No, well, I was going to
say I would offer to pay for a second date.
I feel like this is something. It is a you thing, Phil,
if you guys want to try it again, this maybe
is something you can get over. Phil, and maybe Cat
you can, you know, go out with them and his

(05:47):
beer belly.

Speaker 4 (05:50):
I mean, yeah, I'm down. I could. I could. I
can camouflage my beer belly too.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
All right, well just look up. You don't have to
look at her ankles on the date, Phil.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, man, I mean I can put it aside.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
All right, this is I'm gonna pick up the tavern
and put you guys on hold. You need to talk
off the air. I feel like we can get I
feel like we should just try a second date and
see what happens.

Speaker 4 (06:15):
Okay, yeah, i'll try
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