Different Places

Kelly is being ghosted after a great first date. They went to Flemming's and had a great time. Kelly wants to know why she's being ghosted. 

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Already you guys, ready, it is time for a second
date update. We're going to Middletown. We have got Kelly
on the line. She apparently went on a great first date.
She's getting ghosted and wants to know why. Hey Kelly, Hey,
so welcome to the show. Tell us what's going on.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Okay, So basically I met up with this guy Steven.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Okay, he took me.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
So he took me to Flemmings and it was amazing.
Ooh yeah, he's like gorgeous, great job, really really cute.
I felt like we had a lot in common and
I wanted to see him again and I texted him,
but he's kind of ghosting me, and I'd love to

(00:42):
know why.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Okay, So you go to That's a really nice rest.

Speaker 4 (00:46):
It really is. Yeah, that's a big first date right there.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
That's nice. All right.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
So you you reached out to him and he's ghosting you.
But did you feel like there was a connection? Was
there like a little bit of flirting and good conversation
during the date?

Speaker 2 (00:58):
I thought there was. I thought we had really a conversation. Okay,
like I thought that, you know, the energy was good,
he was cute.

Speaker 5 (01:09):
Did you I was cute like.

Speaker 4 (01:12):
I was cute.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
Uh did you offer to pay? Did he pay? Was
it something with the bill?

Speaker 2 (01:18):
I mean he just paid like like.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
A gentleman, like drinks.

Speaker 4 (01:23):
Weren't you weren't outrageous with the drinks or anything like that?

Speaker 3 (01:25):
Great question?

Speaker 2 (01:27):
No, I don't think so.

Speaker 4 (01:28):
All right, hmm, all.

Speaker 3 (01:30):
Right, well this is what we're gonna do. Let's just
jump right in, Kelly. We're gonna call Steven.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
We're gonna ask him about the date, and I'm just
gonna ask him to be honest.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
Are you ready to hear what he asked to say
about the date?

Speaker 5 (01:39):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:39):
Okay, because it could just be a misunderstanding, yeah, definitely possible.
Or maybe he went on a business trip.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
Yes, summer vacation yes.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
And maybe he's gonna get back to you. All right,
I'm gonna put you on whole kell. You're gonna be
listening in. Feel free to jump in at any time. Okay, Okay,
who knows guys are cuckoo anyway?

Speaker 3 (01:56):
I mean, guys and girls, we're all weird. We're all
just a mess. Honestly.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
No, don't forget she looked cute on the date. Remember
that that's important.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
And I look cute too.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Confidence Maybe Hi is Steven there, Stephen, Steve, Hey, Stephen,
it's Courtney, Steve, it's Walmart.

Speaker 4 (02:16):
Jeff.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
Hey, it's Savannah, and we're calling from kiss ninety five
to seven.

Speaker 3 (02:19):
How are you Stephen?

Speaker 5 (02:22):
Hey, I'm all right.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
No shocker, shocker this early in the morning. Welcome to
the show. You're actually on something called second date update. Uh.
It's a future we have if somebody goes on a
first date and they have a great time, but they
get ghosted and they want to know why. They call
us and we try to get the answers. So this girl,
all right, this girl, Kelly called us. She said, you
guys went out, went out to dinner. She felt there

(02:46):
was a connection. I think she said, you're really cute
and she's cute too. That's what she said.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
You're really cute. You guys had a lot in common,
you had good conversation.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
She's reached out to you because she'd really like to
see you again, but you're ghosting her.

Speaker 5 (03:01):
Yeah, Honestly, I think we're just h we're like in
different places in our lives.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
Oh okay, all right, yeah.

Speaker 5 (03:12):
I don't. Honestly, she's kind of she acts like a
lot younger than me, and uh, I think that kind
of just throws me off.

Speaker 4 (03:19):
You know, oh, what what do you mean? She acts
like what did she do? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Wait, what happened?

Speaker 5 (03:26):
She doesn't like have a good sense of For instance,
she we went to this awesome state put swinter of
Flemings and she comes in wearing a crop top and
she kind of like looks a stripper for lack of
a better word, like she just didn't realize where she
was going. I guess I don't know what she was.
Just she dressed like, you know, like a young woman

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would dress. It was, it was. She seems kind of immature,
and I don't mean to be like mean or anything,
but she's kind of She's really loud and had nothing
going on upstairs, if you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Okay, yeah, so Stephen, she dressed like she was going
to the club.

Speaker 5 (04:03):
Yeah, like she had no idea. It's like she hadn't
gone out to a dinner before, you know.

Speaker 4 (04:08):
Yeah, not much to bring to thee.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
I need to jump in.

Speaker 1 (04:12):
Go ahead, Kelly, she's on the phone. Maybe she's never
gone out to who you don't know, Go ahead, Kelly.
Do you heard what Steven said?

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Yeah? Look like. First of all, how I dress is
how I express myself, and I don't really like to
be judged for it. Second more, I didn't even know
Flemmings was fancy Like Flemmings sounds like a birder place.

Speaker 5 (04:33):
Okay, I didn't know, Okay, And I think we're honestly
just a different places, that's all I don't. I don't
mean to be rude. I just think you know you.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
Okay, Okay, So maybe you are listen, I understand, Stephen.
It sounds like maybe you guys are at different points
in your life, and that's okay.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 5 (04:56):
I just wasn't a match for me. We can say that.

Speaker 4 (05:00):
I mean, Stephen, she said, I did say you guys
had good conversation. Was a conversation at least good? Okay,
I mean.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
All right, you don't need to answer, Steven, taking you
that long to answer, just don't answer.

Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
I feel like at this point this is a wash.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
I feel like there's just not a connection here, but
different stages in life maybe or just not a connection.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
And that's okay, that's okay. Are you okay with that?

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Kelly?

Speaker 5 (05:24):
I kind of misjudged you, I guess okay.

Speaker 1 (05:28):
Well, Stephen, thank you for being honest with us. Thank
you for you know, being honest. And Kelly, thank you
so much for calling us. And I'm glad you got
your answers.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Yeah, me too, And I.

Speaker 5 (05:39):
Still talk to you guys.

Speaker 4 (05:41):
Thanks nice talking to you too, man.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
I appreciate it all right, Kelly, Stephen, thank you so much.

Speaker 5 (05:46):
Thanks, sure had a good look.