March 7, 2025 • 7 mins
Stephaine went on a great first date and now she's being ghosted. We call her date and find out why he's not returning her calls, texts and DMs.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Will they go on a second date?
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:01):
What must be the last time they ever talked? And
kiss in the morning. Second date update, I'm kiss nine.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Okay, we're in Southington. It is time for second date update.
Stephanie's on the line. Stephanie went on a first date
and now she's getting ghosted. Ooh, good morning, Stephanie's the morning.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
How are you this morning?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I'm okay, how are you good?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Welcome to second date update. Obviously you know what it's
all about. You go on a first date, you get
ghosted after that. Call us when we get answers. Producer says,
you went on a date with a guy named Derek.
Tell us all about this first date.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Oh my god, she was the best I where I
have not been on a date like this in forever.
I just felt so good to like I don't know
if like finally find someone that I was really excited
about and that like I felt like gotten me immediately.
It was it was so nice. And now I'm like
really upset that I that I don't know what happened
to him.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
That is so sweet.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
So you go on this date, you feel a connection,
You reached out to him after the date.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Yeah, I like, I I reached out to him, I
gave him space, but I checked him in back, like
I was trying to trying to, like, you know, keep
it alive, keep it.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Engaged, like thank him for the thank him for the date,
and he's ghosted you.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
He hasn't responded.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Yeah, hmmm, did you feel like there was you guys
flirty on this date?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Like was there touching and laughing?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I mean, as far as I can tell, like he's
naturally really funny and really charismatic, so like I you know,
that was kind of like hull over him in that sense,
like it was just easy to to divide in that way.
But I think he reciprocated, like, well enough, were you
all over him in other senses?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
If you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Oh, like you know, I won't get too into it.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Oh maybe she was. Maybe she's like touching legs. Question, Yeah,
how did you leave it?
Speaker 4 (01:49):
When you left? Did he say like, oh, I'd like
to see you again? Did he like try to escape awkwardly?
Like how is the ending?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I don't think it was like a super awkward ending. Yeah.
Well no, I went back to his apartment and then
we like I had to leave in the morning for work,
So like there was a little bit of a rush,
but it wasn't like we were like chewing each other out.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
I don't think, I hope not.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
This is what we're gonna do, Stephanie. We are going
to call up Derek. It sounds like you had a
great first date and for some reason he's ghosting you.
All right, well listen, let's not wait any longer. Hold on,
you're gonna be listening in. Let's call Derek fin Hi
(02:44):
is Derek there. Hey Derek, it's Courtney, Derek. It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Hey, Derek, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five
to seven. You're on the radio this morning, Derek. Surprise here. Listen,
I'll fill you. You're on the radio.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Because we do something called second date update. If somebody
goes on a first date, maybe they feel like they
fell in love or had a love connection of the
perfect date, but then they get ghosted after that and
they want answers. They call us, and that's why we're
calling you.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Oh yeah, all right, I'll.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Refresh your memory. You went on a great date with
a woman named Stephanie. Stephanie called us, said you guys
went on a date. Uh, you had a connection, great conversation.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
She also said that she left your apartment very early
the next morning. Yeah, she did say that.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I think, sorry, I think you got the wrong guy.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
I do not know.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Actually, so this is actually a Lexi.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Wh whoa whoa? Well wait, Stephanie, Well, okay, so.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
My name's actually Alexi. Right. I thought it be better
if I just like use another name for a house.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Okay, your name, your real name is Alexi, but you
used a fake name, Derek.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Do you know Alexi? Oh? Yeah, Okay, this is bizarre.
Why are you? Why are you using a fake name,
Stephanie or Lexi? Why are you?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Like I was, like I thought it. You know, he
wasn't really fansterering my calls, so I thought it'd be
easier if I like to chose different names to get
his attention.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Okay, so you know, you you knew if we told
him Lexi was on the line, he wouldn't answer the
phone or tell us about the day.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Does that correct?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Yeah? But like I didn't know if anything had happened,
so like maybe it was just kind of like a
more urgent way of getting attention Derek.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Derek, Lexi's on the line. Apparently, Lexi's the girl that
you're ghosting. What is going on?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
I mean, can you tell right here she is?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
And she's an insane person.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
He is legitimately crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Okay, okay, well.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
No, this is this is this is crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
But why Derek?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Literally she's been hitting me up on every social media
I mean like phone calls, no, non stop right the blocker,
I mean Facebook, Instagram, picked up every single thing.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
It's just non stop. My phone is just buzzing, buzzing, buzzing.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
And then then she clos up where I work.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Who hold?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
I know?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Okay, are you hearing this, Lexi? Is that what you're doing?
Or you love bombing them?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Like?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
What are you doing? What's happening?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I just like love bombing, But like I just wanted
to get back in touch with him. I thought that, like,
you know, if if one doesn't work, maybe try the other.
If people have, you know, ways of communicating that they
like more than the others.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
So that's just it's a.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Little excessive to call his workplace though.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yeah. Might I just make one suggestion if someone doesn't
respond to you on like text or call or even
like Instagram, DM, you might not want to like call
their job.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
You know, she even she hit me up on linkedin' ha.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
I know.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Okay, So Lexi, do you want to apologize damn it
all for her like being excessive?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Well, I'm sorry for I don't know, scaring you. And
you said harash and like that that really makes me up. Said,
I didn't know that like you had felt that way.
So I am sorry for that. But I likesh, you
wouldn't leave me alone. You wouldn't leave me alone.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
I don't know what else.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
To that harassment. Okay, you're crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
You're crazy person, all right, don't.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
I don't even like those terms, Derek. I feel like
we need to stop right now. Why we all know
you were a little too forward Lexi. For Derek, I
get it, or a lot too forward, a little a lot.
So there's no second date? Am I are we correcting this?
You got your answers, Lexi, So okay, no, no sec
(06:47):
no second there could be order on it.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Okay, no second date.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
All right, So no second date, and maybe don't be
as eager Lexi next time you go on a first date.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Okay, I wasn't. It's just me, but I'll keep that.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Noted all right. Okay, guys, well listen, thank you both
for being.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Well, for Derek for being honest because I'm not sure
how honest Lexi was using a fake name, but thanks.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
For being on second date.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
Update
Will they go on a second date?
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:01):
What must be the last time they ever talked? And
kiss in the morning. Second date update, I'm kiss nine.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Okay, we're in Southington. It is time for second date update.
Stephanie's on the line. Stephanie went on a first date
and now she's getting ghosted. Ooh, good morning, Stephanie's the morning.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
How are you this morning?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I'm okay, how are you good?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Welcome to second date update. Obviously you know what it's
all about. You go on a first date, you get
ghosted after that. Call us when we get answers. Producer says,
you went on a date with a guy named Derek.
Tell us all about this first date.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Oh my god, she was the best I where I
have not been on a date like this in forever.
I just felt so good to like I don't know
if like finally find someone that I was really excited
about and that like I felt like gotten me immediately.
It was it was so nice. And now I'm like
really upset that I that I don't know what happened
to him.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
That is so sweet.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
So you go on this date, you feel a connection,
You reached out to him after the date.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Yeah, I like, I I reached out to him, I
gave him space, but I checked him in back, like
I was trying to trying to, like, you know, keep
it alive, keep it.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Engaged, like thank him for the thank him for the date,
and he's ghosted you.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
He hasn't responded.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Yeah, hmmm, did you feel like there was you guys
flirty on this date?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Like was there touching and laughing?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I mean, as far as I can tell, like he's
naturally really funny and really charismatic, so like I you know,
that was kind of like hull over him in that sense,
like it was just easy to to divide in that way.
But I think he reciprocated, like, well enough, were you
all over him in other senses?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
If you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Oh, like you know, I won't get too into it.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Oh maybe she was. Maybe she's like touching legs. Question, Yeah,
how did you leave it?
Speaker 4 (01:49):
When you left? Did he say like, oh, I'd like
to see you again? Did he like try to escape awkwardly?
Like how is the ending?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I don't think it was like a super awkward ending. Yeah.
Well no, I went back to his apartment and then
we like I had to leave in the morning for work,
So like there was a little bit of a rush,
but it wasn't like we were like chewing each other out.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
I don't think, I hope not.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
This is what we're gonna do, Stephanie. We are going
to call up Derek. It sounds like you had a
great first date and for some reason he's ghosting you.
All right, well listen, let's not wait any longer. Hold on,
you're gonna be listening in. Let's call Derek fin Hi
(02:44):
is Derek there. Hey Derek, it's Courtney, Derek. It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Hey, Derek, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five
to seven. You're on the radio this morning, Derek. Surprise here. Listen,
I'll fill you. You're on the radio.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Because we do something called second date update. If somebody
goes on a first date, maybe they feel like they
fell in love or had a love connection of the
perfect date, but then they get ghosted after that and
they want answers. They call us, and that's why we're
calling you.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Oh yeah, all right, I'll.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Refresh your memory. You went on a great date with
a woman named Stephanie. Stephanie called us, said you guys
went on a date. Uh, you had a connection, great conversation.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
She also said that she left your apartment very early
the next morning. Yeah, she did say that.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I think, sorry, I think you got the wrong guy.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
I do not know.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Actually, so this is actually a Lexi.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Wh whoa whoa? Well wait, Stephanie, Well, okay, so.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
My name's actually Alexi. Right. I thought it be better
if I just like use another name for a house.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Okay, your name, your real name is Alexi, but you
used a fake name, Derek.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Do you know Alexi? Oh? Yeah, Okay, this is bizarre.
Why are you? Why are you using a fake name,
Stephanie or Lexi? Why are you?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Like I was, like I thought it. You know, he
wasn't really fansterering my calls, so I thought it'd be
easier if I like to chose different names to get
his attention.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Okay, so you know, you you knew if we told
him Lexi was on the line, he wouldn't answer the
phone or tell us about the day.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Does that correct?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Yeah? But like I didn't know if anything had happened,
so like maybe it was just kind of like a
more urgent way of getting attention Derek.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Derek, Lexi's on the line. Apparently, Lexi's the girl that
you're ghosting. What is going on?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
I mean, can you tell right here she is?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
And she's an insane person.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
He is legitimately crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Okay, okay, well.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
No, this is this is this is crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
But why Derek?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Literally she's been hitting me up on every social media
I mean like phone calls, no, non stop right the blocker,
I mean Facebook, Instagram, picked up every single thing.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
It's just non stop. My phone is just buzzing, buzzing, buzzing.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
And then then she clos up where I work.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Who hold?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
I know?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Okay, are you hearing this, Lexi? Is that what you're doing?
Or you love bombing them?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Like?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
What are you doing? What's happening?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I just like love bombing, But like I just wanted
to get back in touch with him. I thought that, like,
you know, if if one doesn't work, maybe try the other.
If people have, you know, ways of communicating that they
like more than the others.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
So that's just it's a.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Little excessive to call his workplace though.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yeah. Might I just make one suggestion if someone doesn't
respond to you on like text or call or even
like Instagram, DM, you might not want to like call
their job.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
You know, she even she hit me up on linkedin' ha.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
I know.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Okay, So Lexi, do you want to apologize damn it
all for her like being excessive?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Well, I'm sorry for I don't know, scaring you. And
you said harash and like that that really makes me up. Said,
I didn't know that like you had felt that way.
So I am sorry for that. But I likesh, you
wouldn't leave me alone. You wouldn't leave me alone.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
I don't know what else.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
To that harassment. Okay, you're crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
You're crazy person, all right, don't.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
I don't even like those terms, Derek. I feel like
we need to stop right now. Why we all know
you were a little too forward Lexi. For Derek, I
get it, or a lot too forward, a little a lot.
So there's no second date? Am I are we correcting this?
You got your answers, Lexi, So okay, no, no sec
(06:47):
no second there could be order on it.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Okay, no second date.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
All right, So no second date, and maybe don't be
as eager Lexi next time you go on a first date.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Okay, I wasn't. It's just me, but I'll keep that.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Noted all right. Okay, guys, well listen, thank you both
for being.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Well, for Derek for being honest because I'm not sure
how honest Lexi was using a fake name, but thanks.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
For being on second date.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
Update
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