February 20, 2025 • 6 mins
Tyler went on a great first date and now he's being ghosted. He thought he made a strong connection but hasn't heard from his date since. He wants to know why he's being ghosted.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It could be cringe worthy for a love story. Good
morning and kiss in the morning's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm kiss ninety five seven?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Are you guys? It is time to go to New
Britain This morning second date update. Go on a first
date and you love it, but you get ghosted for
a second date. Call us. Tyler's on the line to
tell us about a great first date he went on.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Good morning, Tyler, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Oh my gosh. I hope we can help you out.
You're getting ghosted after a first date.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, yeah, so it kind of It was a good date.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
You know.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
I took this girl out. She was super hot. We
had a great conversation and I really thought we just
had a connection, like I felt it, you know. And Okay,
now for some reason, I'm texting her and texting her
and texting her and I'm just getting ghosted. Can't figure
out why I thought it went great And I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
I'm wondering Tyler. When you say I texted her and
texted her and texted her, women get you know, it's
a little suffocating. That sounds.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Was it like stocker you talk seeing where you're blowing
her up like every five minutes.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
No, it was like, you know, one day I'm texting her, Hey,
how are you? I want to go on a second date?
I really liked our first one. Or the second time,
it's just like, hey, how are you? Nothing crazy or cringey?
You know. I mean, I've done this dating thing many
times before.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
So okay, okay, hey you know what this is what
I call the deep freeze, the date deep freeze. It's
so cold outside, it's like frozen tundra. Women don't want
to get all dressed up and go out. I'm sure
that's probably why you haven't heard back from her.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
He makes he makes a point, doesn't he to be?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
This is the first time in my life that I've
actually related to something that much.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yes, yes, he's right.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
But Tyler, you felt a connection and you thought the
date went great, and she's not. I mean, even if
she doesn't want to go out because it's like, you know,
the frozen tundra out there, she would at least respond.
I would think.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
That's that's what I'm thinking. I just want to at
least a response. You know. I felt we, like I said,
we just had a great conversation. She seemed like she
liked me. I liked her, and I'm just confused. I
just don't know why I'm at this point of not
getting response.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
All Right, I like your confidence. This is what we're
gonna do. We're gonna call her up and ask her
to be honest. You're gonna be listening in, so hold on. Okay,
m hm, okay, let's call her. He's very confident.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I think he overtexted and she got freaked out.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I do too.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
I texted her, then I texted her, and then I
texted her. Yeah, it's like, oh, soccer too much?
Speaker 5 (02:32):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Hi, is alexis there speaking? Hi Alexis, It's Courtney.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Hey, Alexis, it's Savannah. You're on Kiss ninety five seven.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I gotta just let you know. Yeah, you're on. You're
on the radio this morning.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Oh my gosh, I love this show.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Wait, this is so fun.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Okay, Hey, Well then I'm glad you're familiar with the
show because you might also be familiar with Second Date Update.
When somebody goes on a first date and they get ghosted,
they call us You're on Second Date Update.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Oh boy, okay, Oh, I.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Will refresh your memory if just in case, Tyler. Tyler says,
you and he went on a great first date. He
said that he felt a connection. He did say there
was a lot of flirting back and forth, didn't you guys?
He said there was a lot of flirting. He was
attracted to you, he said, he reached out to you.
I'm guessing it was three or four times. And you're
ghosting him, and we're wondering why he's getting ghosted. Is
(03:27):
it too many text messages?
Speaker 5 (03:31):
No, so it's it's actually not the text messages, okay,
And Tyler's Tyler's a great guy, and like, yeah, it
was a fine date. I have to be honest. He
actually told me pretty upfront that he has an STD
and he was like, but by date three, we should
(03:53):
be good, Like I'll be in the clear by date three.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
No wait, no, was he joking? Was it like a
joke and he like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 5 (04:02):
No, Like I'm I took him to be like pretty
serious about it, and like that's it's great, like get tested,
like that's all important. But like I wasn't even thinking
about that. That was like so far from my first thought,
Like it was a first date like that doing all
that was not on the table for me. So I
was just so shocked that he was so forward.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Wait forget ghosting him. How did you not run out
of the restaurant at that moment. I would have liked
been like, excuse Manny to use the bathmo and like
slipped out the window.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Yeah. No, it wasn't one of those moments. Like I
stayed for the rest of the day. But I just
thought that was so so forward and so weird of
him to Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
All right, can I just I got to bring him
on the line. He's listening in Tyler. Was it a
joke or were you being serious about your STD Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:45):
No, I mean, you know, it's embarrassing to say on
the radio, but it was. It was not a joke.
It was something. I'm a very honest person, and I
wanted to just let her know I liked her. I
thought maybe she would just be like, oh okay, like
after a couple dates will be good. I just wanted
to make sure I told her everything. I thought that
was important.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
What So you were assuming that at some point in
the near future you guys were going to be intimate.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I mean, yeah, it was we were flirting, you know,
Like I said, there was hand touching. We were locking eyes,
like you know, every guy kind of knows those are
the signals I wanted to be up.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
Front Tyler Tyler Tyler Tyler.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Maybe it's the girls that I hang out with, but
I don't think that I know a girl that would
be like, hey, babe, just let you know I have
an STD And she'd be like, okay, no big But.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
You know what would what would she do if I
didn't tell her then she got the SDD.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
That's right, I mean, stand up guy right here? My friend.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Yeah, Cuda waited for the second, third, or fourth. I
just not even the second date. I mean we that's
something you can I just Alexis, are you hearing what
he's saying?
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:51):
And you know, I appreciate that, like I it's good
to be honest and all that. I just think maybe
it was a little too honest for me. So I
love that for you, but I don't know that that's
for me.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
So even if I offered to pay for another date,
like we'd pick up the tab, would the answer be
no or yes?
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Alexis, I think no would be my final answer.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
What if we threw in like a prescription of vow tracks.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
No.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
All right, let's not make fun of it. Let's not
make fun of it. Tyler, you got your answer. This
is why there's This is where you're getting ghosted. However,
I think it's been about three days now or more so.
Your next date that you go on with somebody, you
don't have to say anything if you're in the clear.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Okay, yeah, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
I don't interesting. Well, you guys, thank you listen. I
appreciate your honesty, both of you. We wish you all
the luck and keep us posted.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
All right, you got it,
It could be cringe worthy for a love story. Good
morning and kiss in the morning's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm kiss ninety five seven?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Are you guys? It is time to go to New
Britain This morning second date update. Go on a first
date and you love it, but you get ghosted for
a second date. Call us. Tyler's on the line to
tell us about a great first date he went on.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Good morning, Tyler, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Oh my gosh. I hope we can help you out.
You're getting ghosted after a first date.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, yeah, so it kind of It was a good date.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
You know.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
I took this girl out. She was super hot. We
had a great conversation and I really thought we just
had a connection, like I felt it, you know. And Okay,
now for some reason, I'm texting her and texting her
and texting her and I'm just getting ghosted. Can't figure
out why I thought it went great And I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
I'm wondering Tyler. When you say I texted her and
texted her and texted her, women get you know, it's
a little suffocating. That sounds.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Was it like stocker you talk seeing where you're blowing
her up like every five minutes.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
No, it was like, you know, one day I'm texting her, Hey,
how are you? I want to go on a second date?
I really liked our first one. Or the second time,
it's just like, hey, how are you? Nothing crazy or cringey?
You know. I mean, I've done this dating thing many
times before.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
So okay, okay, hey you know what this is what
I call the deep freeze, the date deep freeze. It's
so cold outside, it's like frozen tundra. Women don't want
to get all dressed up and go out. I'm sure
that's probably why you haven't heard back from her.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
He makes he makes a point, doesn't he to be?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
This is the first time in my life that I've
actually related to something that much.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yes, yes, he's right.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
But Tyler, you felt a connection and you thought the
date went great, and she's not. I mean, even if
she doesn't want to go out because it's like, you know,
the frozen tundra out there, she would at least respond.
I would think.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
That's that's what I'm thinking. I just want to at
least a response. You know. I felt we, like I said,
we just had a great conversation. She seemed like she
liked me. I liked her, and I'm just confused. I
just don't know why I'm at this point of not
getting response.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
All Right, I like your confidence. This is what we're
gonna do. We're gonna call her up and ask her
to be honest. You're gonna be listening in, so hold on. Okay,
m hm, okay, let's call her. He's very confident.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I think he overtexted and she got freaked out.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I do too.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
I texted her, then I texted her, and then I
texted her. Yeah, it's like, oh, soccer too much?
Speaker 5 (02:32):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Hi, is alexis there speaking? Hi Alexis, It's Courtney.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Hey, Alexis, it's Savannah. You're on Kiss ninety five seven.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I gotta just let you know. Yeah, you're on. You're
on the radio this morning.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Oh my gosh, I love this show.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Wait, this is so fun.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Okay, Hey, Well then I'm glad you're familiar with the
show because you might also be familiar with Second Date Update.
When somebody goes on a first date and they get ghosted,
they call us You're on Second Date Update.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Oh boy, okay, Oh, I.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Will refresh your memory if just in case, Tyler. Tyler says,
you and he went on a great first date. He
said that he felt a connection. He did say there
was a lot of flirting back and forth, didn't you guys?
He said there was a lot of flirting. He was
attracted to you, he said, he reached out to you.
I'm guessing it was three or four times. And you're
ghosting him, and we're wondering why he's getting ghosted. Is
(03:27):
it too many text messages?
Speaker 5 (03:31):
No, so it's it's actually not the text messages, okay,
And Tyler's Tyler's a great guy, and like, yeah, it
was a fine date. I have to be honest. He
actually told me pretty upfront that he has an STD
and he was like, but by date three, we should
(03:53):
be good, Like I'll be in the clear by date three.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
No wait, no, was he joking? Was it like a
joke and he like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 5 (04:02):
No, Like I'm I took him to be like pretty
serious about it, and like that's it's great, like get tested,
like that's all important. But like I wasn't even thinking
about that. That was like so far from my first thought,
Like it was a first date like that doing all
that was not on the table for me. So I
was just so shocked that he was so forward.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Wait forget ghosting him. How did you not run out
of the restaurant at that moment. I would have liked
been like, excuse Manny to use the bathmo and like
slipped out the window.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Yeah. No, it wasn't one of those moments. Like I
stayed for the rest of the day. But I just
thought that was so so forward and so weird of
him to Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
All right, can I just I got to bring him
on the line. He's listening in Tyler. Was it a
joke or were you being serious about your STD Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:45):
No, I mean, you know, it's embarrassing to say on
the radio, but it was. It was not a joke.
It was something. I'm a very honest person, and I
wanted to just let her know I liked her. I
thought maybe she would just be like, oh okay, like
after a couple dates will be good. I just wanted
to make sure I told her everything. I thought that
was important.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
What So you were assuming that at some point in
the near future you guys were going to be intimate.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I mean, yeah, it was we were flirting, you know,
Like I said, there was hand touching. We were locking eyes,
like you know, every guy kind of knows those are
the signals I wanted to be up.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
Front Tyler Tyler Tyler Tyler.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Maybe it's the girls that I hang out with, but
I don't think that I know a girl that would
be like, hey, babe, just let you know I have
an STD And she'd be like, okay, no big But.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
You know what would what would she do if I
didn't tell her then she got the SDD.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
That's right, I mean, stand up guy right here? My friend.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Yeah, Cuda waited for the second, third, or fourth. I
just not even the second date. I mean we that's
something you can I just Alexis, are you hearing what
he's saying?
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:51):
And you know, I appreciate that, like I it's good
to be honest and all that. I just think maybe
it was a little too honest for me. So I
love that for you, but I don't know that that's
for me.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
So even if I offered to pay for another date,
like we'd pick up the tab, would the answer be
no or yes?
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Alexis, I think no would be my final answer.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
What if we threw in like a prescription of vow tracks.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
No.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
All right, let's not make fun of it. Let's not
make fun of it. Tyler, you got your answer. This
is why there's This is where you're getting ghosted. However,
I think it's been about three days now or more so.
Your next date that you go on with somebody, you
don't have to say anything if you're in the clear.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Okay, yeah, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
I don't interesting. Well, you guys, thank you listen. I
appreciate your honesty, both of you. We wish you all
the luck and keep us posted.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
All right, you got it,
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